Filed under: Adult Enrichment and Group Meetings, Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Family Ministry, Trends in Religion | Tags: family spiritual life, liberal church for families, parenting, spirituality
“A hundred years from now, it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove…but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child.”
Please join me in a focused ministry circle, during which we will consider our role as spiritual guide in parenting our children. In this circle will ask ourselves:
What is my definition of spiritual…parenting?
What do I really mean when I say I want my child(ren) to be happy?
What kind of example am I setting?
How do I help turn values into practices, and then fit them into our busy family life?
How can I listen more deeply, speak more wisely?
How are my physical & spiritual health interconnected?
How can I become more aware of my own spiritual experiences, and how do I help my family discover theirs?
As a family, how can we be a force for healing in the world?
The topics will be guided, but we’ll learn from each other’s ideas, successes, and, perhaps most importantly, our failures.
We will meet in in Citrus Heights (off of Greenback and Mariposa). We will meet once a week, for 8 weeks. We began on Monday, September 26th.
It is still possible to register… if you can make the next 7 sessions and can show up Monday, October 3rd, from 6:45-8:45. This will be a very focused time of adult interaction so that you can go home and have more focus for your little* ones.
*They may not be so little—last time I facilitated this workshop, the age range of children represented was 18 months to 25 years, and everything in between☺
If you have any questions regarding the group, please feel free to contact me, Karen.
Notes From Pastor Cranky (the very grateful Family Minister):
–Note: This is not for the general public, but for parents who are members, friends or newcomers to our church.
Flyers will be at Connection Central Table after the services this Sunday. To reach Karen now about next Monday night’s launch of this important Ministry Circle, send Pastor Cranky a note or post a COMMENT here.
Filed under: Comparative Religion, Graduate Theological school/PSR, International, Travels | Tags: Christian history in the Pacific Region, D. Min. classes, seminary
Monday morning (September 19) I got to campus at 7:40, before the GTU Library opened, so I went to PSR’s Chapel of the Great Commission to pray and meditate, then I studied for an hour before class.
The six of us in the Doctor or Ministry seminar class met with Prof. Boyung Lee. We talked about the difference between academic or systematic theology and practical or contextual theology. Contextual theology is formed in real life, rather than separate from it in the mind of a genius. It involves research, so we began talking about the various forms of qualitative (vs. quantitative) research, and how those can be applied to the world of religious communities and applied in varied contexts.
Each one of us turned in an 8-page paper giving a “thick” description of the context or setting of our intended research project (mine is the UU Church of the Philippines), with several questions and interests that arise for us about doing work on that context. We each summarized this with our classmates and heard questions and feedback.
I LOVE the dining hall at PSR. Chef Andy runs a great staff and provides a variety of options at every meal. After lunch and some errands I returned to the hall to do some reading for a few hours. Monday was quite hot in the East Bay, so I sat near an open door.
Tuesday morning I was back in the library, starting research on my term paper for the history of Christianity in the Pacific Region. Still trying to figure out what further history research I can do on the UU Church of the Philippines, and haven’t found many new primary sources online in books or periodicals.
I left in time to get to the 11:10 AM chapel service. (The first week we heard from the school’s president, Riess Potterveld. Last week we heard from the academic dean and professor of New Testament, Bennie Liew. He gave a great sermon about Jesus’ parable of the man who held a banquet and whose invitees didn’t show, so he punished them and then had his servants invite regular folks from the street. But one of the guests wasn’t dressed for a fancy occasion, and the host punished him as well.)
This week’s chapel was a hymn sing. Eight students or staffers introduced songs that were important to them from their tradition, and then we sang them. The range included “Gonna Lay Down My Sword and Shield” (an old African American spiritual), “Don’t Be Afraid” (a chantlike song from the Iona Community of Scotland), “When In Our Music God Is Glorified” (a newer hymn that appears in the United Methodist and UUA hymnals), “O Holy City, Seen of John” (a 1910 Social Gospel text set to a Protestant tune from 1848), and a rocking contemporary evangelical or Pentecostal hymn about being raised by the power of Jesus’ blood (introduced to us by an African American lesbian ministry student from Detroit).
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But our opening hymn was “Enter, Rejoice, and Come In,” #361 from the gray UUA hymnal. It was accompanied by piano, accordion, and two tambourines. We’ve gotta try that at church! The woman who introduced it is an African American UU ministry student who has just transferred to PSR from a Methodist School in Washington, D.C. She told the group that she had been away from church for an extended time after her husband’s death, and this was the first song she sang on her first Sunday back, and she knew she was home. I thanked her later that day. She said she had joined the PSR choir to make sure that some UU songs get included in chapel. During the service we had a prayer of blessing for a stack of new Bibles donated for the chapel’s use by the last graduating class. The chaplain also said he hoped these would stay put in the chapel, and that over time a number of hymnals had gone walking, probably by innocent but neglectful borrowers. He proclaimed a “hymnal amnesty”–no questions asked, just bring them back.
Without fail I fall asleep after lunch, so it’s never good to have a class after lunch, but I do. I was going to skip lunch Tuesday but just couldn’t resist. It was freshly made Middle Eastern food and I had more than I should have, so I had extra coffee.
At my table was a young history classmate and her husband. They are from the Asian tribal group (i.e., non-Hindu) called Mizo, from the northeast Indian state of Mizoram, near Bangladesh and Burma. He is a Presbyterian minister, here getting a Ph. D., and she is taking special courses and maybe pursuing a D. Min., like me. Their church does not allow women to be ministers, however. They like their Presbyterian Mission Home housing and classes, and their two kids like the local school, but California life seems distracting. They are used to having people just drop in the house back home, whereas here folks need to plan a social occasion. When they learned that I stay over with friends on Monday night, they invited me to stay with them sometime. They introduced me to a young woman from Korea, also getting a Ph.D. She mentioned being in a class about Greek philosophy and needing to read Plato in the original, which was a challenge. The Korean woman asked the Indian man if he could help with the Greek (given its use in his Biblical studies). He said, “Maybe, but that’s Classical Greek” (and not Koine Greek). I grabbed more coffee, and the man’s wife and I headed to our history class.
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We started by breaking into pairs to do an exegesis (exegetical analysis) of a 1521 account by a Spaniard of Magellan’s preaching about Christianity to a group of Filipinos and inviting them to convert if he could locate his priest. Most of us agreed that this was part of a colonialist plot. However, the professor pointed out that Magellan had stumbled on those Islands by accident, as he had been fleeing the Portuguese ships while on a spice-hunting mission and didn’t really know where he was. He was killed later that year in the Philippines.
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Even with only 9 in the class, it’s a communication challenge to have an inter-cultural group. We have a Korean priest, a Korean evangelical/Weslyean man, a white Pagan woman, a male Samoan ministry student, my Indian friend, and another white guy. Plus an Asian American woman with us on a laptop computer, through Skype.
After our pairing up for the analysis of the 1521 account, we took a break, and I heard one of the Korean speakers asking the Indian woman about a word he hadn’t understood from the conversation. It was “exegesis,” which to the ear can sound as if it has something to do with Jesus. I tried to help by typing it into my laptop’s dictionary.
So… The linguistic differences take some time in making sure we are all on the same page, and make lectures and discussions a bit slower than they might be with an all-American crowd. Yet, given this historical topic, these differences add a dimension I rarely had in college days. And, I might add, that at the start of class, one of our fellows was missing for 15 minutes. It turns out it was the other white American guy. He had been sitting in the room right next door to us, mistakenly thinking that’s where the class met and wondering where we were.
So, it’s safe to say, everybody needs you to cut them some slack now and then.
Work back at church has been crazy since I returned from Berkeley, including the break-in of an office of two staff members, with the theft of two PCs and a flat-screen TV/DVD player (all new, since they had been replacements after a similar theft a year earlier). But this time the crooks sprayed a fire extinguisher all over the place, to cover their tracks and fingerprints. Looked like a war zone. So we’ve been moving staff offices around, and preparing to bring on new custodial help as well as restructure our administrative staffing. Thank goodness I didn’t have to write a sermon for Sunday!
Filed under: Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Church Finances and Stewardship, Special Events, Stewardship & Finances, UU Denomination and Pacific Central District News and Views | Tags: architect, building project, capital plans, church layout, long range goals, new buildings on church campus
[written by Barbara]
Wow – it seems like all of a sudden there is a lot going on in master planning. Constantly updated drawings and plans are everywhere! With collaborative input from much of the congregation our architect, Jeff Gold, has made great headway in visualizing a “new improved UUSS.”
The main areas of development in this plan are:
- - Sanctuary/Social Hall – increasing seating capacity, comprehensive remodeling including a new heating and air conditioning system, substantive remodeling of the kitchen, structurally reinforcing the building to current codes, a fire sprinkler system, and adding support spaces (storage, bathrooms, etc.)
- - Offices – adding and consolidating office space that includes a reception/greeting area
- - RE – remodeling and expansion
- - Parking – reconfiguration and renovation of the entire parking/vehicle circulation area
- - Grounds and Garden – new landscaping and upgrades for the grounds and streetside appearance (includes a shade cover for the patio, a labyrinth, new entry courtyard, and covered walkway between RE and the Social Hall)
- - New multi-purpose room with seating capacity for 125 and a new ‘welcome hall’ joined to existing Social Hall
- - ‘Green’ construction methods
- - Compliance with current codes for the entire campus
You are invited to attend as Jeff gives a presentation of the plan on October 2nd after the 11:15 AM service. Childcare and food will be available.
A handout of Frequently Asked Questions and Answers will be available at the meeting as well as on the preceding Sunday (and on our website).
This will be a great opportunity for discussion, and will provide an informational foundation for the Congregational Meeting on October 16th, when we will be asking the congregation for a formal ‘vote of confidence’ about the direction the master plan is taking, and for approval to make a lot line adjustment.
Additional information is available on our website. Also, check out the updates on our Master Planning team’s weblog : PlanItUUrth.wordpress.com.
Filed under: Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Church Finances and Stewardship, Special Events, Stewardship & Finances, UU Denomination and Pacific Central District News and Views
Rev. Lucas Hergert
Minister, Unitarian Universalist Church in Livermore
Lucas is our guest speaker Sept. 25 for Association Sunday.
A young couple recently requested that I officiate a wedding. I asked details about their ceremony, and gathered that it was going to be a big hairy formal deal. Ten bridesmaids, expensive catering, the works.
Cool, I thought, and agreed to do it. About a week after our conversation, the husband-to-be called to tell me that he and his fiancé had chosen a different option. They had asked an inexperienced friend to officiate. So I pictured this huge traditional wedding with a completely untrained person leading the formalities. Something wasn’t right with that picture.
With instant online ordinations, more and more couples are taking this route. According to the Christian Century, a whopping one third of all weddings are performed by family friends. Clergy, please take your seats in the back.
Such trends beg the question: What’s the use of professional ministry, any way?
I want to go on record saying that I am not anxious to perform additional weddings. I enjoy it, but I do not rely on it for income or validation. And it doesn’t affect my vocation if people choose to go another route. I have a wonderful, growing congregation and plenty to do there.
That said, I offer my doubts that family friends and clergypersons are equivalent.
Malcolm Gladwell wrote that professionals need 10,000 hours to master a skill. It takes years for clergy to reach this threshold by preparing and performing services. When they do, there is a certain confidence and presence that accompanies them to worship leadership.
Your friend who just received her online ordination certificate may be able to read the lines. She may be able to dress the part. But any minister can see it’s just that. Dress up.
All weddings have smiles all around. Nonetheless, I will venture to say that even the family will notice the mispronounced name, skipped hymn, shallow or absent homily, and untested microphone. God save us from the untested microphone.
Public opinion has not shifted so quickly about other professions. Take medicine. I suppose if I really wanted, I could ask my friend to reset my dislocated arm and stitch my forehead. The instructions are online, right? And my friend—well, he’s smart and well intentioned.
And then there’s my other friend who’s a great debater. Perhaps I could use her to represent me in my hypothetical divorce proceedings. She will tell my wife’s attorney what’s what.
In truth I wouldn’t dream of doing either. The reason is because I have something to lose there. So why don’t people think they have something to lose when they ask an amateur to officiate the most important day of their lives? Most people wouldn’t risk amateur hour with a broken arm or court appearance. And yet one third of the American public would consider it in a heartbeat with weddings.
My advice for pastors is that we earn our keep. We have to be persistently, resiliently, uncompromisingly committed to ministerial excellence. This year, the Unitarian Universalist Association is having a special offering that will go in part to the continuing education of clergy. It’s called Association Sunday, and I’m supporting it generously. I believe we all will benefit from new and creative ways of bearing witness to the important moments in people’s lives.
My advice for everyone else is this: Consider your options.
Filed under: Church Finances and Stewardship, Special Events, Stewardship & Finances, UU Denomination and Pacific Central District News and Views
We drink from wells we did not dig.
We eat from fields we did not plant.
We have been warmed by fires we did not kindle.
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From the larger Unitarian Universalist Association, our congregation has received new hymnals, R.E. curricula and Green Sanctuary support. We have used the UUA’s creative resources, wise counsel, organizational consulting, and financial support services.
We’ve received the gift of bold public witness by our elected national spokespersons, including UUA presidents. They speak up in the name of our UU Principles and the values of freedom and justice. They lead us in Standing on the Side of Love.
Our UUA network also supports training for ministers, religious educators, and music directors. This not only helps the professionals, it also enriches the lives of our congregations.
Association Sunday is September 25 at UUSS. We invite your financial support of the UUA. My gift this year will be $125. A gift in any amount is welcome. It makes a difference!
Please join Doug and me in supporting Association Sunday. Join us as we affirm that as UUs, we belong to one another.
Filed under: Special Events, Stewardship & Finances, UU Denomination and Pacific Central District News and Views
UUA: President’s Video Message for Association Sunday 2011.
Filed under: Comparative Religion, Graduate Theological school/PSR, Inspiration, Magazine & Newspaper Articles, Sermons and a Whole Lot More, Trends in Religion, Uncategorized | Tags: sermons boring life-changing fresh air
Loved this Faith Matters column in a recent issue of Christian Century magazine.
http://christiancentury.org/article/2011-08/why-sermons-bore-us
Filed under: Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Children and Youth, Family Ministry, Sermons and a Whole Lot More, UU Denomination and Pacific Central District News and Views | Tags: 9/11 and peace, compassion, invitation to church, liberal progressive Religious Education programs, patriotism and peace, Unitarian Universalist
Filed under: Adult Enrichment and Group Meetings, Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Books (includes sermons based on books), Comparative Religion, Comparative Religion, Graduate Theological school/PSR, Trends in Religion | Tags: "lenses" of our beleifs, Doug Kraft, God, Ken Wilber, religious literacy, spiritual literacy
At a member’s request and with his help, Doug has compiled four recent sermons on the topic of “God” into a book.
It’s available at our Sunday Bookstore for $10 and through the cursed, community-destroying amazon.com (for less money but with shipping charges that make it more expensive). But there are many people who may enjoy the book who don’t live in Sacramento.
If you have read the book, Doug invites you to go to amazon.com and post a review of his book.
This is the FOREWORD that I wrote for the book. Now I can say I am a published writer!
Foreword
It has been enriching and fun to have known Doug Kraft since 2000, when I was serving a church in Silicon Valley and he was called as Lead Minister by the Unitarian Universalist Society of Sacramento. We have served together as officers for the UU ministers’ association in the Pacific Central District. Our colleagues look to him as a pastor to pastors, coach, accompanist, troubadour, trouble-shooter, sophisticated psychotherapist, and wise elder. He’s a compassionate and mellow court jester.
Little did I know when I left this District in 2007 that I would return in a year to serve along with Doug, in an associate ministry position at this church.
He’s gone beyond merely recruiting me to the job. He helped me set up an old futon frame and a new laptop computer, drill holes in my wall and move old furniture in and out of a two-story apartment. As a colleague and leader, he’s loyal, collaborative and playful. He’s open to being challenged and is thoughtful in challenging me. He’s insightful about human nature and forgiving of human blind spots and slip-ups, including mine.
In few parish pastors have I seen such a balance of ministerial talents as we have in Doug. He stays on top of the facts and figures of the institution’s life and history, and he counsels individuals with care and insight. He supports the nuts and bolts of board and committee work while keeping our long-range vision, goals and congregational covenant in front of our eyes. He leads us in song with his guitar, delivers dharma talks, and keeps his church data organized and handy on multiple software applications he created himself. He devotes heavy amounts of time to reading, sermon preparation and rehearsal, and his daily meditation practice.
Doug doesn’t talk much in his sermons about our Unitarian Universalist spiritual forbears or progressive theological heritage, even though he grew up as a UU in Houston and has served in historic churches in New England and in Sacramento, where Unitarianism arrived not long after the Gold Rush. Instead, Doug embodies our tradition. The Unitarian minister professor of social ethics James Luther Adams (among others) has said that one of the keys to liberal religion is that revelation is not sealed, but continuous. New insights and understandings about God and human life continue to develop.
So it is that Doug has introduced our congregation to his ideas and those of Ken Wilber about human consciousness and spiritual literacy. These four sermons invite us to consider how human beings perceive the divine and one another, and how we think about thinking about God.
The sermons are not only rich in analysis and thought, they use vivid examples and stories. They are compassionate, practical and helpful—as he strives to make all his sermons, and all of his ministry. Doug invites us to let go of the prize of certainty and the illusion of control. He invites us to ease up a bit, step back, observe, and relax. What an invitation. What a sweet and simple gift.
Sacramento, June 2011