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YOu know how much I hate to brag… but Adult Programs at my church are worth crowing about

Associate Minister’s Annual Report, Part 1

We have a congregational meeting this Sunday, May 20.  In anticipation of that, I’ve been talking with folks and thinking about a summary of some of the many changes we have experienced and made happen at UUSS.  My areas include Child/Youth Religious Education,  All-Ages Community Building, Management of Administrative and R.E. Staff (including facilities and finance-related matters), New Member Orientations and support of our great Greeters/Ushers, and Adult Enrichment.

Here is a list of the many adult programs we have hosted in the past 12 months, give or take.  Since I am going to Boston for meetings of the grants panel on which I serve, I may not be able to add other reports before Sunday.

Continuous Classes and Groups

UU Readers Book Discussion (monthly)

Poetry Circle (monthly, no longer meeting)

Fencing (semi monthly, no longer meeting)

Tai Chi

Easy Yoga

Chair Yoga

Saturday Meditation (monthly, no longer meeting)

Prayer Circle (drop-in, starts June)

Strangers’ Feasts (circle suppers, starts again in fall)

Documentary Film Club (monthly, no longer meeting)

Women’s Group  (semi monthly)

Gen’X Boomers Fellowship Group

Walkers and Talkers (weekly)

 

Time-Limited Courses and Series

Immigration as a Moral Issue

Health Care Reform

Vegetarian Cooking

God and Consciousness

Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (2 series)

Palestine/Israel Study Group

Atheist Spirituality

Prayer Circle

Health Care Action Study

Photo Magic for Dummies

Journal and Journey

Soulful Sundown

Global Garden of Unitarian Universalism

God, Consciousness, and Spiritual Literacy

Discussion of “The Power of Now” (starts in May)

 

One-Time Discussions/Presentations

Introduction to the Mormon Religion (June 3)

Summer post-sermon discussions

Unitarian Universalist Heritage and Identity (August 5)

1568 to Today:  Unitarians in Transylvania  (May 29)

Slide Show and Conversation about UU churches in the Philippines

Related Activities to Appreciate,  but not Organized by Adult Enrichment

Newcomers’ Orientation to Membership (3 series/year)

Betty Ch’maj Event with Meg Barnhouse & Kiya Heartwood (April 28)

Alliance Program (monthly, September through May)

Social Responsibility Network:  Beyond these Walls (monthly speakers)

Spiritual Grounding for Leadership (application only)

Congregational Conversations (first Sunday of every month, September through May)

Sunday Soups (twice monthly, winter months)

Theater One performances (two plays yearly, plus one summer worship service)

CUUPS Labyrinth Walks

CUUPS Pagan Holiday Ritual Celebrations

Interweave’s Facilitation of a UUSS presence at LGBT Pride Parade and Fair (June 2)

Attendance of Staff, Lay Leaders and Minister at District Assembly (Pacific Central District, UUA)

What did I leave out that you remember from the past year?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



Associate Minister’s Weekly Message to the Congregation April 26, 2012
April 26, 2012, 12:12 pm
Filed under: Becoming and Being Part of a UU Congregation, Special Events

Weekly Ministerial Message:  The “Big Weekend” Edition!

 

Headlines:

Meg Barnhouse:  Concert Saturday 7 PM: Music, Stories & Laughter

Hunger Banquet dinner hosted by our Youth Group, Sunday, April 29

Shape Note Sing Sunday afternoon

Maypole/Beltane Ritual Sunday afternoon

Auction Item—seats still available at a member’s lunch table

Summer Camp early-bird registration ending—Chalice Camp!

Artist Reception Friday evening, May 4

Capital Campaign Feasibility Study—Sunday, May 6

Meet UUSS candidates for elected leadership Sunday, May 6

Operating Budget Proposal for 2012-13 to be explained  May 6

Congregational Conversation workshop #3 Sunday, May 6

Dear Members, Families, Friends, and Visitors,

Greetings!  The rest of the staff and I are really excited about Meg Barnhouse’s concert this Saturday night at 7:00 at UUSS.  Four of us are coming back early for it (from the UU Pacific Central District’s annual assembly in Oakland).  Meg is a humorist, therapist, southern lesbian pastor (pretty humorous in itself!), spiritual writer and songwriter, and UU icon.

More about Saturday’s Concert

You may ask:  Why come to Meg’s concert if you are coming to church the next morning?   Sunday you’ll hear a great sermon.  Saturday night you will hear many more songs and stories, and get to know Meg more intimately.  Also, her partner and collaborator, Kiya, will be singing with her.  If you are over 21, you’ll get a free glass of wine.  (Other refreshments too.)  Tickets are $10, available at the door at 6:30 PM.  If you are under 21 and would like a free ticket, there are a few left.  Write me ASAP!

 

Thanks to the committee that is making such good use of the restricted bequest of a late member, Prof. Betty Ch’maj, for this year’s Ch’maj Event (pronounced sh-MAY).  That’s why tickets for this event are only $10!

 

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Sunday Services – April 29

Services at 9:30 and 10:15 AM.   Religious Education at 9:30 AM

“Tales of the Tribe” is the sermon.  Religious Education program:  Sunday is a community garden day for Spirit Play (grades 1-5); Junior High Youth Group will help to make scare crows for our UUrthsong Garden.  Dress for the garden!  We ask for your newspaper donations by Friday at 2 for stuffing scarecrows!

Senior High Youth Group will plan for the April 29 Hunger Banquet. They will sell tickets after the first service, on the patio.  Every Sunday our childcare staff is on duty from 9:00 to 1:00 PM, so folks with babies can attend either service.  If you need sign language interpretation for a service, the Office needs 10 days’ notice for the later service (14 days for the 9:30 service) in order to let our interpreters know.

This is the last Sunday for April’s Shared Offering, which supports the UU Legislative Ministry (CA).  Spring Connections Fair—stay after service to meet people from activity groups, committees and ministries who will be at tables on the meadow and patio.  Find out what’s happening at UUSS.

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Hunger Banquet—Let’s support our UU teenagers as they host this important event:  raising awareness of global inequities in food distribution.  Bring a canned food donation and buy a $2 ticket.  Thanks to the Senior High Youth Group, parents, volunteer advisors and staff for making this happen.  This Sunday, April 29, 5:30-7:00 PM (The program may go till 7:30 but if you need to leave early for the Beltane ritual, that’s okay.)

 

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May Day/Beltane Ritual–CUUPS holds a Labyrinth Walk, potluck supper and May Pole Ceremony for Beltane this Sunday, April 29.  Labyrinth 4 pm-5:30 pm, pot luck 6-pm-7pm, and May Pole ritual: 7 pm-9pm.  In case of rain, ritual is inside.  Free, but donations for defray UUSS overhead costs appreciated.  Open to the public, including children.  RSVP helpful.  Laurie Jones  or Diane Kelly-Abrams,

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Cost Updates on Summer Camp –We have several kids signed up for Chalice Camp!  Don’t forget to register your incoming 1st – 6th graders for the all-day camp– at UUSS,  August 6-10.  We’ll have a fantastic time getting to know each other, playing games, preparing a play, creating art and playing with water.   Attendees will also deepen their identities as UUs and be able to better articulate their faith.  The cost for an additional child from same family is now only $100!  Early bird $200 deadline extended to Sunday, May 6.  Scholarships are available for financial need; check with Miranda or Rev. Roger to apply.  Limit of 20 kids.  Chalice Camp is open to Pledging Friend or Member families.  Contact Rev. Roger to inquire.  Register for the June 5 & 12 Orientation to Membership class at the Sunday Welcome Table.  Child care is provided during the Orientation (by advance request when you register). To learn more or sign up, visit the Religious Education page on our website or contact camp director Mary Howard or registrar Carrie Cornwell, whose son looks forward to going.  Others involved:  Ginny Johnson, Miranda Massa, Roger Jones, and selected Senior High Youth as counselors!  Don’t miss out!

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Exciting and Important UUSS Issues and our Future

Spring Connections Fair—this Sunday—after services, stay to meet some of the several activity groups, committees and ministries who will will be at tables on the meadow and patio.  Stay after church to find out what’s happening.  This is a great way to learn how to get connected here, find out ways you can put your gifts to use in service of UUSS or the local community.  Hosted by Program Council and several committees and activity groups.  Sunday, April 29, after the 9:30 and 11:15 AM services.

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Congregational Conversations—Sunday, May 6–

Lance Ryen and Judy Bell invite you to the last of 3 experiential workshops designed to expand and deepen the UUSS Conversation.   The workshops have reflected our mission, vision, and covenant – who we are, how we deepen our lives, and how we can be a force for healing in the world.   This third experiential workshop is entitled “Being a Force for Healing in the World.”  You do not need to be a church member or to have attended the other workshops in order to benefit from this one.  Please join us for this installment of an exciting adventure.

During June, July and August we will not be holding Congregational Conversations.   But we plan an exciting program of Conversations starting in September – held the first Sunday of each month.  We hope you will mark your calendars and join us.   (Editor’s note:  I heard great reviews from folks leaving an earlier Conversation!)   Sunday, May 6, classroom 7/8 from 12:45 pm to 2:45 PM. 


 

Capital Campaign Feasibility Study starts–and ends–next weekend!The Capital Fund Campaign feasibility study will assess how much of the architectural Master Plan we can realistically fund complete in a first phase over the next couple of years.  The first weekend in May we will survey everyone who comes to Sunday services.

 

Capital Fund Campaign consultant Bud Swank will lead a focus group with the board and program council.  In addition, anyone who wants to speak with him  about your feelings, thoughts and hopes for UUSS can sign up for a 30 minute individual or couple interview Saturday, Sunday, or Monday (May 5,6, & 7)  Contact Carrie Cornwell, Mary Howard, or Ginger Enrico. [contact info left out of this blog for security.  contact them through the Office if you do not have a UUSS Directory]

 

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Meet our Nominees for Leadership next Sunday—Our Nominating Committee is pleased to invite you to meet the volunteers who have accepted nomination to elected positions of leadership in the church.  Come to a brief reception on the patio after the 9:30 service, Sunday May 6.

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Yet Another Pledge Campaign Update—many of you have mailed in a 2012-13 pledge form or brought it to a Sunday service.  As of Sunday: 274 pledges totaling $418,310.  Thank you so much!

Sorry to say, UUSS still has about 80 pledge forms outstanding, with about $89,000 of pledge commitments to fund all the goals and commitments to support our denomination, keep improving the security, look and cleanliness of our building and grounds, and be a UUA Fair Compensation employer.

 

Budget Forum–Our Treasurer  will present and explain the proposed 2012-13 operating budget to you in a brief session after the first service next Sunday, May 6, in a classroom to be announced.   The budget proposal is based on pledge commitments made now for the coming budget year.   Read Cathy’s report on page 2 of the May Unigram.

Every pledge is valued and appreciated, and we thank you.

 

You may contact Michele to ask her to fill out a form for you or to mail one, or you may download one at this link.  Or we can mail one to you.

 

If you can make a pledge, please do it today.

Every pledge makes a difference!

 

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Artist Reception–The next art reception will be Friday, May 4 from 5:30 to 7 pm in the Main Hall.

Photographers Donald Satterlee and Dianne Poinski share their beautiful work with us in this exhibit that focuses on subtle tonality and the luminosity found in nature.  Don’s work evokes mystery and mood, Dianne hand colors her black and white images.  All welcome!

Chanteuses Concert—Our own Mary Howard, Barbara Lazar and guest artist Eric Stetson invite you to hear “Radio Hour,” the spring concert of this great women’s choral group.  $15.  Free up to age 16.  Sunday, May 6, 4:00 PM at UUSS.  Also:  Friday, May 4, 7:30 PM, United Methodist Church, 9849 Fair Oaks Blvd., Fair Oaks.  See www.chaneeuses.org.

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Luncheon Opportunity–There are a few places left at the table for lunch on May 15 at the home or garden of Vivian and Larry. This auction item sold at the Harvest Fest for $18, and Vivian will welcome you for a similar donation to UUSS. [Pastor Cranky is unhappy that he cannot attend!]

The menu:

…Butternut squash soup

…sourdough French bread

…mixed green salad with walnuts & feta cheese

…Four-cheese baked shell pasta casserole [OMG!]

…Apple Pie a la mode and coffee or tea.  [You’re killin’ me, Vivian!]

Send an e-mail to Vivian to book your place at the table.

 

Adult Enrichment Courses and Related Programs

 

UU Readers Book Discussion– May 29:  Angle of  Repose by Wallace Stegner.  (1971 Pulitzer Prize; one of the best novels about California.)  The last Tuesday of every month, 6:30 PM.  Jim Glidden facilitates.

 

Beginning Tai Chi - for All Ages and All Abilities – Wear comfortable clothes, flexible shoes and your sense of humor.  No pressure, just fun, movement and a chance to explore something new.  You can practice standing or seated as needed.  Donations help with UUSS overhead.

Yoga Classes — Paige  invites you to try a first class for free.  Sign up at Sunday Connection Central.
  Complete contact information is not included on this blog.  Please contact the Office by phone with questions or email me.  Register on Sunday at church.

 

Chair Yoga — a gentle form of yoga, practiced sitting in a chair, or standing using a chair for support.  Classes include eye exercises, breath exercises and meditation.

 

Easy Yoga –  Pranayama (breath work) as well as  Asana (posturing).  Aside from benefits such as increased range of motion, strength, balance, and flexibility, Yoga also assists in stress release, developing attention skill, and cultivating an awareness for the moment.  Both moving and still meditation are part of the process.

 

Women’s Group –  Open to women of all ages, members, non-members, and visitors.  You are invited to bring a poem, reading or just yourself to meet new friends and share in a discussion.  Please contact Lynn [via the Office] to get a weekly notification of the meeting.

 

The Power of Now—Eckart Tolle discussion group starting soon.   Introduction to the Mormon Religion—guest scholar June 3.  Sign up for both at the Adult Enrichment bar at Sunday Connection Central.

“UU Living Legacy” Civil Rights Pilgrimage—discount registration ends May 15– The next UU Living Legacy Civil Rights Pilgrimage will be October 6-13, 2012.  This unique bus trip is much more than a Civil Rights history tour through Alabama and Mississippi. We will be visiting historic sites and meeting veterans of the Civil Rights Movement, and but will also be spending time together and with guests exploring what racism, white privilege, and barriers to equality look like today in Southern towns we visit—and in our own hometowns.  Beyond experiencing first-hand the civil rights legacy, our goal is to develop commitment, vision and mechanisms within our group to work on issues of race, injustice and inequality that still bedevil our congregations and our society. The Living Legacy Pilgrimage is hosted and organized by the Reverend Gordon Gibson and Judy Gibson; the Reverend Hope Johnson; the Reverend James Hobart; Janice Marie Johnson; Annette Marquis; and Donna Sequeira, and co-sponsored by the UUA’s Southeast District.  For more information or to register, visit www.uulivinglegacy.org.  Register early – costs are discounted for those who register before May 15. (Editor’s note:  I took the first of these trips in 2000, and it was moving and inspiring.   Good food, good lodging, new friends!)

 

In case you forgot…

 

Two days till we have  Meg Barnhouse in concert!  Wine, women and song!  Saturday, April 28 at UUSS.  Read more on page one of the April Unigram.

 

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Volunteer Opportunities—Easy Ways to Make a Difference

 

Coffee & Tea Making on Sunday—My first hug of the morning at church every Sunday goes to the coffee maker.  (Not the Bunn-O-Matic, the person who is hosting for the day.)  Fun and fulfilling! Contact Tom Lopes for info.

Sound Board/Audio Monitoring at services—It’s easy once you know.  Contact Eric if you have questions.

Welcome Team Welcomes You to Welcome Others!—

Do you enjoy meeting new people?

Do you attend the 11:15 service? (Even just one of them a month?)

Consider joining the 2nd Service Welcome Team as a greeter one Sunday a month!   Our mission is not difficult: you give a warm greeting to visitors and make them feel welcome here. If this sounds like a fun way to volunteer, please contact Sally Campbell, coordinator,for for more information.

(This is a really important ministry at UUSS.  Everybody is new once!)

All-Ages UUSS Church Camp– June 15-17 at Camp Norge in Alta, CA.

This is for families, singles, toddlers, elders and all the rest.  At the Game Night I met with Fran and Anne to start planning.   We and Ruth invite additional, new team members (adults or youth) to help plan and promote this great event.  Let me know.

 

Thanks to each and every one of you for the ways that your presence makes this congregation a wonderful place to serve.  See you Saturday at the concert or Sunday at church, the Hunger Banquet, Shape Note Singing, or May Pole celebrating.

To see my Pastor Cranky weblog, click: http://www.ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com.

In addition to more about Doug’s retirement announcement, our May 20 Congregational Meeting and our nominees for elected volunteer positions, you can find important information, much food for thought, and great color photographs in the brand new Unigram for May.

 

Yours in service,




Chanteuses Concert

The women’s choral group, Chanteuses, will be at UUSS on Sunday, May 6th at 4pm for their spring concert,” Radio Hour”.  UUSS members Mary Howard and Barbara Lazar are members of the group, which will sing contemporary and traditional selections during the fun-filled, musically pleasing concert.  Our own Eric Stetson is the guest artist, complete with ukelele!  Local performer Martin Beal will be the MC.  Tickets are $15 for everyone over 15 and can be purchased from Mary or Eric, as well as at the door.  If May 4th doesn’t work for you, the concert is repeated Friday night, May 6th at the Fair Oaks United Methodist Church in Fair Oaks.  Don’t miss this unique experience!  Hope to see you there.



Events Thursday morning, 3 entertainment events: Friday night open mic & headliner musician, Vagina Monologues Saturday

Alliance Program—the Alliance is longest continuously running discussion and fellowship activity in our church (since 1898!).  Meets Thursday, April 12, 10:45 AM in the Fahs Classroom.  Come for coffee. Guest speaker is introduced at 11:00.  Bring your lunch and visit with new and old friends after the discussion.

THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT!—3 events to remember

1–Open Mic Night–SHINDIG at the HEX.  UU headliner Jim Scott!

Friday, April 13—7:00 PM for an open-mic portion.  Sign up Sunday!

Then, at 8:30 PM, acclaimed acoustical guitarist Jim Scott performs an evening of his songs of peace and the environment.  A composer, guitarist, singer and ecological and peace activist, Jim was a member of the Paul Winter Consort for years.  He wrote many pieces the Consort recorded, including choral works in their celebrated Missa Gaia/Earth Mass.  In his world travels, Jim has performed concerts or led services at more than 300 UU churches.  His latest project is The Earth and Spirit Songbook, an anthology of songs of ecology and peace.  For more about Jim Scott, click his name above.

To sign up as an open-mic act for the first half of the show, please contact Music Director Eric Stetson at eric@uuss.org.

Tickets are $10 general, $5 for performers; children 12 and under are free.

2– The Vagina Monologues—in Sacramento now!

Do you love good theater?

Passionate about ending violence against women and girls?

Have we got an event for you!

The V-Day Sacramento 2012 Community Production of Eve Ensler’s

The Vagina Monologues takes place next week.

This year’s production features a number of CHURCH members in key roles. Janet  Lopes and Julie Heston are cast members. Kristen Vedell is

Production Assistant, and JoLane Blaylock is the Producer. Come show your

fellow UUs your support and enjoy this amazing show.  It will make you

laugh, gasp, cry, and then laugh some more!

(It will make your family minister blush.)

Monday April 9, 6:00 PM—SOLD OUT!  Sneak Peek with Panel Discussion following, at The Guild Theater.

TICKETS AVAILABLE!  Saturday, April 14—Premier Performance, with Silent Auction before, 7:00 PM The Crest Theatre. For ickets and more information, visit

http://vdaysacramento.org/.  April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and we are proud of our UU women for bringing this production back to the community.

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3—Save the date and buy a ticket:  Meg Barnhouse in concert!  Saturday, April 28 at UUSS.  Read more on page one of the April Unigram.

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UU Readers Book Discussion–Our book for next month is The Tiger’s Wife by Tea Obreht.  It is a novel by a young writer about her memories of a grandfather living in the Balkans.  Tuesday, April 24, 6:30 PM in Classroom 12 (way back there).  Get reading!




What Is the “Hunger Banquet”?– Sunday, April 29, at UUSS

The Hunger Banquet is a consciousness-raising and fund-raising event designed by Oxfam.   Many churches have hosted one, and soon our Senior High Youth Group will host it:  Sunday evening, April 29.  They are selling tickets after the 9:30 AM service the next two Sundays.  Donations for the tickets begin at only $2 per ticket.  You may give more.  The youth and some parents have been soliciting donations from local merchants for the meal.

The way this “Banquet” works– you arrive and are given a seat at a table.  The food served and the proportions of it will reflect the distribution of food among the population of the world.  Hence, some of us will have a very nice meal at a very properly set dinner table– but only a small percentage of us.  Most of us will have a modest amount of food, perhaps rice and maybe some vegetable protein.  This experience gives us a visual and tangible sense of the inequities in food distribution and access.  It gives us food for thought, as we watch others enjoying a great meal while we get just enough to eat.  It may make us self-conscious if we are at the nice table and most of our friends and fellow diners are sitting nearby with a bowl of rice.

I’m sure there will be lively conversation and fellowship–not just a tense or boring meal.  Come to think of it, in the cultures around the world in all times of history, it’s been the fellowship that has made a meal, more than the food.  Come explore this!

Send me a COMMENT or an email if you can’t come on Sunday but would like to buy a ticket or make a donation to our youth group’s event.

Read more about the concept from OXFAM at this link.



Call Me Foolish! Call Me Faithful! — Family Minister’s church newsletter column for April

Unigram newsletter April 2012


The big vote approaches!

A few days after you read this, UUSS members will cast their votes on the Board’s motion for the congregation to call me as a settled associate minister.       As I write this article two weeks earlier, half of our UUSS households have not filled out a pledge form for the coming budget year.   This makes me a bit nervous.

The two most precious things about churches with congregational governance is the right to choose their own clergy and the right to sustain and fund their own programs, with no outside interference or dependence on a hierarchy.  Of course, with rights come responsibilities.

Without financial support from all of our pledging friends as well as our members, UUSS would not be such a strong community, giving safe harbor, sharing our beacon of love and justice.   It matters!

If you are a member, I hope you show up and vote.  If somehow you missed the Membership Orientation courses and forgot to sign the book as an official member, consider joining UUSS after the vote.  Meanwhile, you can still give your feedback and ideas to the Board, ministers, and members regarding this vote and the other business of significance.

I look forward to the vote.  I find pleasure in the date of the occasion:  April Fool’s Day!

We’re not looking for a simple majority vote by a bare quorum.  We’re hoping for a 90% or more “Yes” vote by a large turnout of members.  However this may turn out—a strong affirmation of our ministry together or a surprise message that maybe we’re not so well matched for a longer commitment—I have faith in this congregation and your future.

As a reflection of your vitality, size, needs and vision, you have had a full-time second minister on staff continuously for nine years.

I have been honored to serve for four of those years.  I’ve grown personally and learned much from our lay leaders, adults, youth and children–not to mention our gifted, caring and compassionate lead minister.

Yes, I’m nervous about the pledge results and excited about Sunday’s vote.  But I have faith in this congregation’s ability to rally, step up, and move forward into the future.

With a firm foundation of our heritage, openness, creative lay leadership, mission, values and covenant, I know that the congregation will shape the future as it lives into it with joy and love.

Yours in service,


PS—If you haven’t turned in a 2012-13 pledge form yet, please contact the office.  Your commitment right now can be pivotal to the future of this thriving congregation.  Thank you!

 



“Safe Harbor” does not mean “Safe Bunker”: Doug’s great Stewardship Sermon for Celebration Sunday: “Resilience and Kindness”

Today we had one service, with nearly 300 in attendance.  Doug preached. Lonon gave a startling and moving testimony about his finding our church, ending with his thanks, and his encouragement to other newcomers that this is a good place.  I’ll try to post it soon.  Also today: the San Francisco/Oakland-based Sarah Bush Dance Project offered two liturgical dances.  We had a buffet sandwich/wrap lunch and two cakes afterward.   It was the day to turn in financial pledge cards for the next budget year.  Even before today began, we had received 74 pledges totaling $205,432!  The pledge forms that were brought up to the front and placed in a basket during our Celebration of Commitment ritual are yet to be tallied.  In any case, we are well on our way to the goal of $510,000.  It was a great day, and this is a great place to be.

Resilience and Kindness, by Doug

I start this morning with a few stories.

Story #1: A Meeting

I was standing in the back of the sanctuary greeting people after the service when I noticed Barbara Gardner standing in line. She was supposed to be opening the congregational meeting to vote on our 50 Year Building and Grounds Master Plan. What was she doing back here?

It looked like she was doing her best to look patient.

“What’s up?” I asked.

“Jeff forgot his computer,” she said. Jeff Gold is our architect. He was going to be presenting the Master Plan itself.

“He has his PowerPoint presentation, projector and computer case. But the computer isn’t in it. He uses a Mac laptop like yours. Can we use yours?”

“Of course,” I said handing her the keys to my office. “I’ll go check with him to see if he needs anything else.”

By the time Barbara returned with my computer we had figured out that we also needed an adapter to plug it into his projector. My adapter was at home and too far away.

Hmmm.

Anne Bandy had approached me for help a few weeks earlier. She was offering a vegetarian cooking class. To project recipes and information, she wanted to connect her Mac laptop to the church’s projector. I told her the kind of adapter she needed and she bought one. It would work for Jeff as well.

I set out to find her. The congregation had spread out through the auditorium, lounge, library, religious education wing, office, patio and grounds. She could be anywhere.

I saw Ginger Enrico. “Can you help me find Anne?” Ginger turned immediately to go look. Then she came back. “Why don’t we call her cell phone? It’ll be faster.”

“Great idea!” I said. Ginger fetched her cell phone as I looked up Anne’s number.

Anne was on her way to church. “No, I don’t have my adapter with me,” she said. “But I’m close to home. It’ll only take me a few minutes to get it.”

Barbara started the congregational meeting with background of the Master Planning process. As she finished, Anne slipped into the congregation with her adapter and computer. As Jeff began to talk, I connected my computer to his projector. By the time he needed PowerPoint, the equipment was working smoothly.

I don’t think the congregation ever realized there had been a problem.

Story #2: A Vigil

On Tuesday morning, September 11, 2001, the World Trade Centers disintegrated. It was probably the most successful attack on America since the bombing of Perl Harbor. The fact that we were struck by a handful of terrorists rather than a nation left us feeling particularly raw and vulnerable.

What did it mean? What was going on? What would happen next? The future was foggy. I’m sure you remember the mood.

So on Wednesday evening, September 12, we gathered in this room. We sang. We meditated. And we invited each other to speak. The only guideline was that we weren’t going to tell each other what we should think or feel or do: no advice. We were just going to speak from the heart about what we were thinking and feeling. We were just going to share.

We didn’t solve the problems of the world. We just shared our hearts, our confusions, our fears, our hopes. We leaned on one another.

And that made all the difference. We had one another and knew that together we’d get through.

Story #3: A Cult

I grew up in Unitarian churches. So I took for granted the worth and dignity of everyone, thinking for myself and discovering my own believes in my own experience. I had friends who grew up in more rigid religious environments.

The cult of the Moonies was big back then. My non-Unitarian friends were more resistant to the Moonies because they were so attached to the beliefs they’d been taught. But once they got in, they rarely got out.

My Unitarian friends were more open to the Moonies. In church we’d learned to be open to other ideas and ways of thinking. So my Unitarian friends were more likely to go into the Moonies. But none of them stayed. They were so used to trusting their own experience and thinking for themselves, that once they learned what the Moonies were really about, they decided it wasn’t for them. And they just left.

Story #4: A Divorce

I was standing in our parking lot a few years ago as a member of our congregation told me she was going through a divorce.

“Would you like to sit down and talk about it?” I asked.

She paused. “Thanks,” she said. “I think I’ll tell my Ministry Circle first. Then I’ll let you know.”

She called a few days later and said her Circle had been great. For the moment, she had the support she needed.

This didn’t surprise me – she had invested in them and they in her. So they were there for her.

Story #5: A Fan

Walking into the office the other day I ran into Ricardo – one of our custodians. He smiled and showed me a blue wire that was charred on one end.

Apparently one of the exhaust fans on this building had stopped. A new fan costs about $600. An electrician could replace it for a few hundred more.

But Ricardo knows something about these things. Before calling an electrician, he climbed up on the roof. He discovered a burnt relay, which is what he was showing me.

He drove to the hardware store and, for a few dollars, bought another.

The fan works fine now.

Resilience

What do these stories have in common?

For one thing, they’re all about community. We’re stronger together than separate.

In a Peanuts cartoon Lucy holds up her fingers and wiggles them before Charlie Brown. “See these fingers,” she says. “By themselves each is weak and puny. But put them all together …” and she forms a tight fist that touches his nose “… and they are a power to behold!”

Yet the strength of community comes from more than brute power – a power that’s quieter and more fluid. It comes from resilience. When we’re together we’re more resilient than when we’re alone.

I walked into an interview with the Korean Zen Master, Seung Sahn. Next to him was a carved wooden Buddha with a rounded bottom. It sat on a little board. One end of a piece of elastic was stapled to the rounded bottom and the other end was stapled to that board.

Seung Sahn whopped the Buddha with the back of his hand. The Buddha fell back and lay down. Then the elastic spring it back upright.

Seung Sahn said, “Zen is the rubber band. It won’t protect you from getting hit. Life is like that. But when you get knocked over, it pulls you back up.”

Similarly, community and our congregation are rubber bands that help us recover. They give us resilience.

Nothing will prevent things from occasionally going wrong in meetings (story #1). Our architect, Jeff Gold, is enormously competent. But we all have lapses. The presentation went smoothly because Jeff was part of a team and that team was part of this congregation and together we had more resources and resilience to recover from a lapse.

Nothing can prevent the violence of the world from touching us like on September 11 (story #2). Our vigils are sometimes protests against specific policies. And sometimes they are just ways of coming together when we feel discouraged. As we come together we find the resilience to come back to center and face the next day with more heart, suppleness and intelligence.

Nothing can protect our kids from getting into trouble, making bad decisions or getting caught in unhealthy groups like Moonies (story #3). But I know that our children and youth programs – classes, Spirit Play, Youth Groups, sexuality courses, coming of age program – help our young people develop resilience through confidence in their own abilities to work things out by their own values. Our children and youth are more resilient because they are part of our Unitarian Universalist tribe.

Nothing can prevent that our loved ones from dying or protect us from getting sick or injured or insure our relationships will never change (story #4). These leave holes in our lives. But when we come together for memorials or Ministry Circles or just connecting in our various groups or Sunday services, we become more resilient. We see that all of us have holes in our lives. Knowing we aren’t alone shows us a deeper wholeness that makes us more resilient.

Nothing will prevent relays from burning out or buildings from aging (story #5). The fan was repaired inexpensively because collectively our congregation and staff draw on more talent than to any one of us have alone.

Harbor

Part of the theme of our Pledge Drive this year is “safe harbor.”

Notice that it is not “safe bunker.” It’s not “perfect bomb shelter.” It’s not “a mighty fortress.” There is nothing that can shield us from the difficulties of the world. When our lives hurt, when we lose our job, when a loved one dies, when our confidence drains, it’s not necessarily because we’ve failed, sinned or done anything wrong. Stuff happens. Just ask Job.

The image of our stewardship drive is “safe harbor.” A harbor doesn’t stop the storm. The winds and rains come in. But the harbor does lessen the strength of the currents and the impact of the waves. It does give us a place to ride out the storms without being pulled to the bottom.

The bonds of community make us more buoyant. They give us resilience. They make it easier to heal, grow and thrive.

Beacon

The other half of our theme this year is a beacon of love and justice.

We don’t claim to be the sun that turns the night into day. We don’t claim to fix the world. We just want to play our part: to be a force for healing in the world. To shine a light into the darkness.

And what’s the nature of the light we shine?

I would suggest it is kindness.

Just look at our values statement. It is really a faith statement even though it says nothing about ideas or ideology: the nature of God, the universe, the after life, political preference, tax policies or the nature of the human soul.

It says we put faith in the goodness that can be found in anyone when we have enough openness and curiosity and love and courage. Our values statement says “we put our faith in the kindness.”

It’s a beacon of kindness, not a beacon of ideological purity. Ideologies start wars and motivate terrorists. Our beacon is about kindness, fairness, equality of opportunity, worth and dignity and the fact the we are all inextricably related to one another in the interdependent web.

Blind Spot

One of our weaknesses – a blind spot for religious liberals and progressives as well as pluralistic consciousness in general – is that we underestimate the power of a lighthouse. We value being out there taking care of the oppressed, the poor and the disenfranchised. We may forget to build our own resilience, to build our own community, to give bricks, mortar and power to our lighthouse, if you will.

It’s easier for us to take care of others than take care of ourselves. It’s all too easy for us to let our building get worn, our budget to get depleted, as we give to others.

Yet, I think we’re doing pretty well: recent repairs, new entryway, upgrades to the kitchen and library and lounge area. Our budget is getting stronger despite the recession.

We adopted the Master Plan without a dissenting vote. For a herd of Unitarian Universalist cats, that’s nothing less than a miracle. It says a lot about our trust in one another and the resilience that brings.

We have a stronger group of young adults than we’ve had in years. Our youth programs are large and feisty. We have lots of adult enrichment classes and groups. We have Ministry Circles, Men’s groups, book clubs, Family Promise. We serve meals at St. John’s shelter and Loaves and Fishes. We have a Palestinian Israeli study group, Lay Ministry, Friends in Deed, choir, vigils, family camp, games nights, and on and on. And we’re close to settling Roger here as our second minister.

Who is doing all this?

We have no sugar daddies. We can’t print our own money.

We have ourselves. And I’m glad for that. So take a look around. Go ahead, it’s okay. Don’t feel shy.

This is us –a good sampling of all of us. We together are the ones strengthening the harbor and powering the light. We are the ones creating the resilience and the kindness to shine into the world.

So this morning, we gather to celebrate all that we are – all that we’ve done – to pat ourselves on the back.

And in the process we consider our financial pledge to this congregation. For the tending of the harbor, for maintaining the lighthouse. For the sake of the kids, the elders and all the in-betweeners. For the sake of all we bring. For goodness, openness, curiosity, love and courage.

Pledging is an act of faith. It’s not blind faith. It’s faith born of experience. We trust one another. It’s faith that if we do what we can we’ll do well.

I know I’m one of the larger givers in the church. There are ministers who don’t pledge at all. They say they are employees and are not part of the congregation in the same way the members are. And there is something to be said for that point of view. But I value being a member of this congregation as well as one of your ministers. So I pledge as a member.

I want to thank all of you who help support all of us in so many ways. I trust that you give within your means – not more than you can afford and not less. I trust that you’ll take it to heart and pledge what you can. That’s all any of us would ever ask of each other. Know that every pledge helps.

So thank you. Thank you.

 

 



What you can expect at UUSS on Sunday, March 4

This is what to expect on Celebration Sunday, when we have one service at 10 AM.

Our Stewardship Campaign Team will all be dressed in their Sunday best!  (Maybe other volunteers will do so as well.)  The team will be here early to be ready for the light lunch and cake that will follow the 10:00 service.

As you arrive and head for the sanctuary, Jorge Jimenez and friends will greet you at the Pledge Table to give you an envelope with your personal 2012-13 Pledge Form and a letter informing you of the pledge you made last time.

Please come a bit early to the service to pick up your envelope (in alpha order by last name).  Hang onto it until the ritual!  Enjoy coffee before service.

Our Coffee Hospitality Team will have two coffee, tea and juice stations and will have the coffee hot and ready well before the service.

Members of the Sarah Bush Dance Project from San Francisco

will offer two liturgical dances (one before the kids leave).  Doug Kraft will offer a homily.  I’ll do something myself!

Later in the service, ushers and greeters will invite us to come forward during the ritual, row by row, to place our Pledge Forms in the large basket. (Those too new to be ready to pledge will be invited to participate by writing their answer to a question of spiritual depth on a form that will be inserted in the order of service.  We seek to be as inclusive as possible.)

The Ministers, Trustees, and Stewardship Team will kick off this pledging ritual.  During the ritual, we’ll be singing spirited and familiar songs.

Our youth groups are invited to stay for the whole service.  I hope you can make it.  If you are not part of UUSS and are just a loyal reader of Pastor Cranky’s blog, I hope you have your own safe harbor, and hope you have a community which together shares a beacon of love and justice to the larger world.  Namaste!

PS–Check out the Sarah Bush Dance Project if you have not seem them at UUSS before:  http://sarahbushdance.com/

or see some videos:  http://sarahbushdance.com/videos/



Another Great Stewardship Testimonial–UUSS–Sunday, Feb. 26, 2012

Next Sunday morning is Celebration Sunday, when members and pledging friends will make their pledges of support for the upcoming budget year at our congregation.   Each Sunday a member or friend has delivered a testimonial about their feelings about the congregation and their financial commitment to its ministries and programs, staff, upkeep and outreach.  I have posted all of them on the blog.  Here is the latest.

Hello and good morning,

My name is Jorge.  About 8 years ago I started to attend this congregation ever since my partner, Ron, introduced me to the idea of Unitarian Universalism.  I was born in a small town in western Panama and raised in strong catholic family environment.  If my Father could see me now in a pulpit, he would fall on his knees shouting …. “ES UN MILAGRO….it’s a miracle.”

 

Growing up, I was the perfect catholic boy attending mass every Sunday, going to the confessionary and along with it, its corresponding hale Maries and Our Heavenly Fathers as penance for my previous week of mischievous acts.  However, as I got older I started to get more curious about the natural world and wanted to learn more about Science.  Something within me started to question some of the beliefs that I was taught in Catechism. My parents could not understand why I was being so stubborn asking such questions and now I can only imagine what went thru their minds…a heretic son!  So surely, I started to drift away from the Church and ultimately walked away from all the mumbo-jumbo of incoherent ranting, homophobia among many others….the list is long!

 

Science ignited my mind and beliefs, and taught me to truly seek the truth and not just be a mindless automaton.  I have followed that career truly applying the Scientific Method into my life.

 

And yet, here I am as a “friend of UUSS” as friend of this congregation speaking out why I support this institution.

 

I enjoy the camaraderie of peers who charm, challenge and comfort me — I am not alone.  This congregation is indeed a SAFE HARBOR.

 

I am comfortable with the ongoing ceaseless ferment of ideas here.  I align with the important work of social justice and the path that this UU has carved into our noble history.

 

I want to help sustain this community, a community for the stranger who may come thru that door next week, who may be seeking what UUs can give.  And I hope, beyond my years on this planet, that such strangers will become like me, supporting this ongoing community.  This place is truly a BEACON OF LOVE and JUSTICE.

 

 

 



Glimpses of a Global Faith—Earthquakes, Handshakes, & Hugs in the Philippines

Family Minister’s Message about the ICUU Meeting–and Us

A 6.7 quake hit minutes before our plane from Manila landed February 6 in Dumaguete City, Philippines.  We had lunch by the sea, watching for “weird waves.”  We felt a 4.8 aftershock, and other aftershocks, for days.

Luckily a geo-physicist from Norway was one of the 71 folks attending this meeting of the International Council of Unitarians and Universalists (ICUU).  Checking the Web, he told us the tsunami warning was over.  Yet the quake had cut off remote UU villages on the north part of Negros Islands from international visitors, and from power and supplies.

Unitarianism and Universalism are found in 50 countries–and counting.  A Canadian minister (the current president of the ICUU) says that we global UUs are not all the same, but are a collection of indigenous expressions of liberal religion.

At this meeting we experienced variety of UU worship style, theology, economic circumstance, and cultural standards.  And much love!

Borrowing Sacramento’s pledge drive theme, all the indigenous versions of our global faith are giving safe harbor, and sharing a beacon of love and justice.

  • The Philippine UU Church brings village lay leaders to the city for training sessions at headquarters.  It is advocating for a national bill for reproductive health.  Rev. Nihal (a December speaker here) operates a micro-loan program for villagers.  He monitors the progress of the boys and girls who receive student sponsorships from UUs in North America.  In the dirt-floor village churches, ministers preach the love of God for everyone.
  • An Australian ICUU delegate gave us testimony about his atheism.  He said he values his church as a safe harbor to explore all matters of spiritual significance and life purpose.
  • The Czech Unitarians will mark 90 years in Prague this year.  The tribal Khasi Hills Unitarians in Northeast India mark 125 years.  Both invite us to visit!
  • A Netherlands denomination representing 47 liberal congregations was voted in as a new ICUU member at this meeting.
  • UUs from Nigeria updated us on the anti-gay oppression they must confront, plus government corruption.  One said:  “We are in the midst of plenty, yet we eat like ants.”
  •  The lay leader of the UUs in Mexico City counts 25 souls at services—and 450 online members.  He has a prison ministry—translating and teaching the adult level of the UUA’s “Our Whole Lives” sexuality course to inmates (male and female).
  •  In Britain, Unitarians practiced congregational democracy long before a Parliament gave power to the people.  In Romania under communism, the state required the minister of every Transylvanian village church to do all the work, disempowering lay leaders.  They’ve been relearning church democracy—and trust of one another—since 1989.
  •  A former Catholic brother in Burundi serves as minister of the new UU church in Bujumbura.  Now married with kids, he works for a British nonprofit, so his ministry is a side job, as it is in most poor countries.  They’ve built a new building and have 80 members.  And the Burundi church is mentoring the Kenyan churches in building up liberal religion.
  • In Kenya, every UU church family has an AIDS orphan living with it.  A young lay leader led worship for us one night. He said prayers for our host nation, his own, and all those in trouble or transition.  He taught us a Kiswahili song, and we went around in a circle shaking hands and hugging one another, singing.
  • The Kenyan UUs were recognized as an “emerging group” by ICUU.  Then the Bishop of the Transylvania church (the oldest Unitarians) presented this newest group with a table cloth and copy of the 1668 Edict of Religious Toleration.

When I see what a liberal church means to people all over the world, I get choked up.  I realize that our own congregation is just as important to me, to us, and to our own corner of the world.  I re-commit myself to support UUSS as much as I can.

What we create here does matter.  Thank you for being a part of it.

Yours in service,


PS—Right now at UUSS, we are pledging financial support for our congregation for the coming fiscal year.  Pledge cards will be turned in by Celebration Sunday, March 4.  We have one service at 10:00 AM with RE classes.  Hope to see you there!




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