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Four of us on staff and two volunteers from the congregation will attend.
Pacific Central District Assembly (DA), April 27- 29: great programs, workshops, entertainment, inspiring speakers, and the chance to connect with UUs from Northern California, Reno and Honolulu. In addition to fine programs for adults, children and youth, this year’s assembly features the Rev. Peter Morales, UUA President, and the Rev. Dr. Robert Latham, PCD-UUA Interim District Executive.
A UUSS member is on the slate to be elected to the District Board at this meeting! Our delegates can vote for him!
Delegate or not, we hope that you will go and bring what you have learned back to UUSS! If you’re interested in carpooling or sharing a room, let the church office or me know.
Deadline for registration is April 23.
To learn more and register, click here.
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How much of my time is “ministry” and how much is “administration”–some ask.
The answer is that it’s all ministry.
It is artificial and harmful to assume there can be “silos” in congregational support and leadership. Everything touches on everything else. We are a not-for-profit business, to be sure. We have personnel policies, employees, finances, buildings and grounds, utility bills, computers [grrr!], renters, publications…
But we are also a community of all ages, a religious institution, a mission-driven organization. We are a network of learners, leaders, volunteers, visitors, donors, and many stakeholders of many different perspectives.
In this community, we are all consumers and producers of ministry.
All the above shows why it can be complicated and challenging to be a church lay leader, staff member or minister. Whatever your role here, once you are working in a church, that role becomes “Job Title” plus Ministry Provider.
A key ingredient in this ministry of administration– as in all kinds of leadership: communication. Communication matters among staffers, and between the church staff and our members and volunteers. Communication is the linchpin of any large or vital organization, especially a congregation. Most frustrations or catastrophes in church life come from bad communication, wrong assumptions, and misunderstandings.
As is normal in an active and changing church, I devote about six days a week to most areas of congregational ministry and leadership. A big chunk of this is in supporting our office and program staff. I also support the program council, board of trustees, treasurer, finance committee, and property management committee; and have conversations with personnel committee leaders. Again, communication is key. Listening, following up, speaking, and following up.
I meet once or twice a month with each direct report for a 60-90 minute conference. I set the agenda and lead staff meetings biweekly; I thank our Music Director for attending so we can build better understanding and mutual support among key members of the whole team. I also hover around the main office and RE office a lot, so I can be present to staffers, tuned in to what’s going on, and handy for quick questions.
This is on every staff meeting agenda:
UUSS seeks to promote an environment in which ministers and staff support one another as members of a team whose primary purpose is serving, supporting and encouraging the members and volunteers.
I appreciate the talent and dedication that our staff members bring to their work here, and I appreciate them: from our part-time child care providers to our custodians, from our music staff to our office staff.
I hope you do too, and that you remember to say Thank You to them. We want to say Thank You to you also. You are why we are here!
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This year, I am fielding calls from reporters wanting to know how we handle the dilemma of Passover starting on Good Friday. I know that, especially for young couples just starting their interfaith journey, this convergence of important holidays may create stress. Say, for instance, your in-laws are expecting you for a raucous Passover seder featuring four glasses of wine and glazed brisket: this could be an alienating experience if you are also commemorating the crucifixion of Jesus and avoiding meat on the solemn Friday of Holy Week.
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Our churches, congregations, and fellowships support, guide, and inspire us in humankind’s greatest quest: that of searching for the fundamental and profound meaning of our lives. We are truly fortunate to live in a time and place where this pursuit can be undertaken freely. Free from political prohibition, free from ostracism, free from material restriction, we can engage with spiritual leaders and investigate philosophies which can guide us in our most important inquiry.
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What really is the size of our congregation?
Social Media Ministry, a 2.5 Year Review
Here is a presentation I made to the professional staff and stewardship committee recently.
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Congregations must be as creative and diligent as ever in their stewardship efforts as we navigate the long and winding road to economic recovery.
Our annual funding is the fuel that fills the tank of the vehicle we call the annual operating budget. And despite our efforts at fuel efficiency, it seems like the costs keep on increasing!
Annual operating budgets are one way congregations estimate and track their income and expenditures from one year to the next.
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At the PSR chapel service, we honored Black History Month with some great singing, and sermon by the pastor of the Metropolitan Community Church in San Francisco. The campus chaplain (a former senior pastor at that SF church) led communion and invited all to partake, in the spirit with which MCC began offering it back in the late 60s when it was founded. Introducing communion, the Lord’s Supper, the Eucharist, he said, “Jesus knew that religious people would have trouble with his message,” so before he left them he initiated this ritual meal in order to draw them back together in remembrance of him. What a great idea about calling back to first principles–and to fellowship–all those who follow his teachings or his churches.
My Asian cultures and faith traditions class did a review of our field trip to a Hindu temple, then welcomed a guest speaker from Indonesia. He talked about the religious diversity and religious history of Indonesia. I went back to the GTU library to start reading for next week’s class on Confucianism.
Then a quick supper in the dining hall. Two ministry students told me they would get up before 6 AM today (Ash Wednesday) to go down to the downtown BART station to offer imposition of ashes on the forehead of any commuters who wished it.
Then in the chapel I attended a talk by Dr. Liza Rankow, an interfaith minister and retreat leader about the late Rev. Howard Thurman, who founded the first interracial congregation in the USA, in 1944 in San Francisco. A profound mystic as well as pastor and activist, Thurman traveled to meet with Mohandas Ghandhi in India during that freedom struggle. He provided much of the spiritual framework and grounding for the leaders of the Civil Rights struggle in the 1960s. The 45 minutes of excerpts we watched and then talked about were quite profound. So I parted with $50 ($30 off the list price) and bought the 6 CDs of interviews and instructional material, “The Living Wisdom of Howard Thurman: A Visionary for Our Time.” Hope to use it for an adult class sometime.
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Attention, members and friends of UUSS!
Theater One is looking for an organized person, who likes handling money, to be in charge of ticket sales for our March production.
We are also looking for people to manage the ticket sales table. We could use someone to help backstage. This job could be a lot of fun for a young adult who enjoys theater, or wants to gain useful experience.
Or the ticket-selling team could be a youth and parent working together, or someone of any age who wants to help out. Just call Bobby Stewart at 489-4248 or Pat Skeels 572-0590
You will receive comp tickets for your participation.
For the rest of us, tickets are a good value, and the evening will be enjoyable (the matinee too)! More to come!
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Near the end of my week in Dumaguete City, I met a bright and cheerful man of 24 in a cafe next to the university campus. Though he has a degree as a nurse, he has not found a job in nursing. He works 6 hours a night in a call center for an internet/long-distance floral company. Two days later, sitting in the Dumaguete airport, I sat next to a man (I think he said he was 21) who had not slept the night before because he was excited about his first airplane flight. He was moving to Manila to start a job. He will be working at the same fast-food restaurant that his mother has been working at. Manila has grown as the country has grown, due to births but also because so many people have moved from the rural or smaller islands to the big city to find work. Like all such major cities, it is crowded, loud, dirty. Most of life takes place on the street. Poor people work and beg and travel among middle class people, but most rich people are hidden away in walled-off mansions with manicured gardens, working and shopping in shiny towers, and hidden in quiet air conditioned comfort behind car windows, while all others crowd the streets in pedi-cabs (in both motorized and bike powered versions, on motor bikes, in regular taxis and on foot ).
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The Rev. Nihal Attanayake serves on the board of the International Council of Unitarians and Universalists. In February 2012, Dumaguete will be the host city for the ICUU’s biennial conference. In addition, he manages the UUCP’s participation in the Unitarian Universalist Partner Church Council (UUCP), a grassroots organization based in Belmont, Massachusetts. While affiliated with the denomination, it is not a program of it, but a separate membership organization. Its purpose is to promote people-to-people relationships between North American UU congregations and those in other countries, including (among other places) the Philippines, Northeast India, and the Transylvanian province of Romania. These “partner church” relationships involve pen-pal connections, “pilgrimage” visits by North American UUs to see their partners and sites of religious significance, and visits by foreign UU clergy to North America. To be sure, these partnerships often include financial support for congregations in oppressed or poor regions of the world but this is not required. The dynamic of wealth inequality can lead to misunderstanding, resentment, or paternalism: in other words, a difficulty for international partners to relate as equals in a religious fellowship.
The purpose of the relationships is not international development or charity, but a real pursuit of connection, affection and understanding. Nihal Attanayake said to me: “We need to know one another!” Given the poverty and isolation of most of his village-based UUs, he said it makes a difference for them to know they are not alone. California-based minister the Rev. Vail Weller said: “The most transforming thing is being seen and loved.”[1]
See a list of UUCP congregations involved in partnerships with North American churches, or those seeking one, in Appendix II. Note that four of the six UUA churches are in the Pacific region. The congregation in San Mateo, California, has had a partnership with the congregation in the village of Ulay since 2001. Several members have traveled to Negros Island, and others have sent letters and photographs depicting their church and family lives. The UUCP has a staff member who translates the letters going both directions. Several members in San Mateo provide scholarships and family support for village children in elementary and high school.
In March of 2011, 10 members from San Mateo flew to Negros to observe and support a three-day workshop in Ulay called a Community Capacity Building Assessment. The goal of such an assessment is to help the community identify its assets, strengths, needs and goals, usually regarding infrastructure. The community then prioritizes its goals, and determines the materials, resources and governmental requirements to proceed.
This assessment was led by UU village lay leaders who had been trained by Prof. Richard Ford, an American UU with international development experience. (Ford was present as well.) The Ulay church hosted the workshop for all members of the village, not just church members. They established these priorities: access to safe water, road maintenance, and electricity. In the words of San Mateo church member Lori Fox: “All of these projects will take faith, creativity, teamwork, manual labor, and fundraising from the entire community [of Ulay]. It is our hope that these dreams might be realized without sacrificing livelihood and education in the short term. Therefore, we ask our congregation [in San Mateo] to support this work with our contributions.”[2]
Many North American visitors to UUCP congregations have expressed feelings of gratitude for the fellowship of the people in the UUCP, especially the warmth, hospitality, joy and hope they experience on Negros Island. Carol Cook, a member of the San Mateo congregation who is one of the annual visitors to Negros Island every year, said the experience has changed her life. She told me: “I didn’t really know what it means to be a Unitarian Universalist,” she told me, “until I learned how much it means to them.”[3]
Amen.
[1] Vail Weller, in-person conversation with the author, Berkeley, December 5, 2011.
[2] “We Are the Ones,” by Lori Fox, Compass Rose: The Quarterly Journal of the Unitarian Universalists of San Mateo, December 2100-Febrauary 2012, 7-8. http://www.uusanmateo.org
[3] Carol Cook, in-person conversation with the author, Sacramento, December 4, 2011.

