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		<title>UUSS Reaches Out in Solidarity: Stepping Up to Support our UU Religious Movement</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By the Family Minister
October 2009
This congregation voluntarily participates in the Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations because we know that our congregations are better together.  We are also one of 40 congregations in the UUA’s Pacific Central District.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>By the Family Minister<br />
October 2009<br />
This congregation voluntarily participates in the Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations because we know that our congregations are better together.  We are also one of 40 congregations in the UUA’s Pacific Central District.</p>
<p>We give and receive support to other congregations by yearly contributions to sustain these district and national networks of support.  The rate of contributions is based on congregation size.  Normally, UUSS would give about $30,000 per year to support this work.  Unfortunately, in the current year our UUSS budget includes a nearly-total cut in its support of the district and the UUA.</p>
<p>Our support does not have to remain that low, however.  The Board of Trustees has authorized a special appeal for donations by members, friends and guests of UUSS to sustain the work of our larger movement.  I am happy that UUSS members Ron Selge and Linda Clear have agreed to lead this fundraising project.<br />
A few examples of how UUA and District involvement helps us at UUSS:<br />
Last winter our church hosted the Pacific Central District’s marketing &amp; outreach workshop, and many of us attended.  (It was one of several organized by the district every year.)</p>
<p>The PCD spring assembly features inspiring keynote addresses, creative worship, and workshops to help lay leaders learn ideas and skills from one another.<br />
The national UUA helps congregations find ministers and make good matches with them. (So far, so good…right?)<br />
The UUA provides training and leadership materials for lay officials, religious educators and ministers.  It publishes our gray and green hymnals, books on spiritual practice, social justice and UU identity and excellent religious education materials for children, teens and adults in congregations.</p>
<p>Last spring our Youth Coming of Age leaders made use of an excellent new handbook from the UUA; in June eight of us made a UU heritage tour of Boston, Lexington and Concord.  This year several more UUSS teens will benefit from the UUA’s age-appropriate comprehensive sexuality education programs, known as Our Whole Lives (OWL).<br />
Our denomination’s elected leaders have given voice to our values of reason, freedom and compassion on social issues of fairness and justice, including marriage equality, reproductive rights, religious diversity, peace making and health-care access.<br />
I am proud to be a Unitarian Universalist and proud to be part of this UU congregation.<br />
In response to the invitation to help restore our UUSS support of our denomination and local district, I will make a personal donation of $250.  To the extent that you are able, I hope you will consider making a generous donation in this campaign to sustain and build our liberal religious movement.<br />
Every gift makes a difference!</p>
<p>Faithfully,<br />
Roger</p>
<p>PS—Checks may be mailed or brought to church and made out to UUSS with this memo line note: “UUA/PCD.” To receive a weekly update from our UU district executive about local and national UU news and opportunities, send a note to CRaughley@uua.org.</p>
<p>Another PS&#8211;as of November 1, advance gifts to this appeal totaled $1,250.  Thank you!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please reflect on this article and let me know your thoughts!
http://www.theweek.com/article/index/96342/The_last_word_Advice_from_Americas_worst_mom
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Please reflect on this article and let me know your thoughts!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theweek.com/article/index/96342/The_last_word_Advice_from_Americas_worst_mom">http://www.theweek.com/article/index/96342/The_last_word_Advice_from_Americas_worst_mom</a></p>
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		<title>Sustainable agriculture and the fight against it</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article is interesting: What&#8217;s So Scary about Michael Pollan?
Also, our weekly alternative paper is starting a series about local farms and sustainable city life. Apparently this area has more than many other regions.
The Downtown/Midtown weekday seasonal farmers&#8217; market (including the one I visit on Tuesday mornings) ended this week with a whimper, perhaps because [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=328&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>This article is interesting: <a href="http://www.truthout.org/1028099">What&#8217;s So Scary about Michael Pollan?</a></p>
<p>Also, our <a href="http://www.newsreview.com/sacramento/content?oid=1308453">weekly alternative paper </a>is starting a series about local farms and sustainable city life. Apparently this area has more than many other regions.</p>
<p>The Downtown/Midtown weekday seasonal farmers&#8217; market (including the one I visit on Tuesday mornings) ended this week with a whimper, perhaps because it had been so windy the night before and keeping their canopies up was a challenge. But I got some good stuff, including corn, from the last few. One man gave me lots of extra pears and said, &#8220;See you in the spring.&#8221; The year-round markets are a few miles away, in shopping center parking lots. There is a very large market under the freeway not far from Midtown, but it&#8217;s on Sunday mornings. I&#8217;ll try to shop quickly some day before church.</p>
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		<title>Sacramento-Bethlehem Sister City Relationship</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[[Blog readers:  If you live or work in Sacramento and like this, please send a letter to the mayor and city council members by November 7!  Following this letter is a fact sheet about Sister City relationships.]
Oct. 28, 2009
Hon. Kevin Johnson via lhammond@cityofsacramento.org
Re: Support for Sister City—Sacramento and Bethlehem
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>[Blog readers:  If you live or work in Sacramento and like this, please send a letter to the mayor and city council members by November 7!  Following this letter is a fact sheet about Sister City relationships.]</p>
<p>Oct. 28, 2009</p>
<p>Hon. Kevin Johnson via <a href="lhammond@cityofsacramento.org">lhammond@cityofsacramento.org</a></p>
<p>Re: Support for Sister City—Sacramento and Bethlehem</p>
<p>Dear Mayor Johnson:</p>
<p>As a Sacramento resident and local clergyperson, I am writing to provide my encouragement and thanks to your efforts and those of the City Council to recognize the City of Sacramento and the City of Bethlehem as Sister Cities.</p>
<p>A couple in the congregation I serve are active participants in the relationship with San Juan de Oriente, Nicaragua, and I’ve enjoyed learning about the relationship.  Another  member of the congregation has introduced me to community members working on the Bethlehem project.  My congregation and I support any endeavor that helps to promote cultural understanding between communities.</p>
<p>As one who has loved international travel and exchanges of culture and hospitality since college days, I am excited about the prospect of linking with such a historically and culturally significant city – not to mention one of the most famous place names in Biblical geography and literature!</p>
<p>I look forward to meeting Mayor Batarseh next week in Sacramento and look forward to a new learning partnership between my own city of Sacramento and the City of Bethlehem.  Please be in touch if you have any questions, and best wishes.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>[my name and title]</p>
<p>cc to <span style="text-decoration:underline;"><a href="mailto:SacramentoBethlehem@yahoo.com" target="_blank">SacramentoBethlehem@yahoo.com</a></span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">MORE INFO</span></p>
<p>Sacramento to Bethlehem Sister City Initiative</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>WHAT ARE SISTER CITIES?</strong></p>
<p>In 1956 President Eisenhower proposed a people-to-people citizen diplomacy initiative &#8212; “letting people themselves give expression of their common desire for friendship, goodwill and cooperation.” This evolved into a worldwide program of officially approved, long-term partnerships between two communities in two countries.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Also referred to as twinning, friendship cities and partner cities, the Sister Cities relationship can be initiated by the mayors or by groups and individuals in the community. And Sister City activities can include municipal, business, professional, educational and cultural exchanges and citizen volunteer participation. It’s everything from official city-to-city delegations, to a young person in Sacramento chatting electronically with another young person in Bethlehem.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS THE SACRAMENTO TO BETHLEHEM SISTER CITY INITIATIVE?</strong></p>
<p>The Sacramento to Bethlehem Sister City Initiative is a group of Sacramento area residents whose goal is to make Sacramento and Bethlehem official Sister Cities. The group communicated this goal in writing to Bethlehem’s mayor and city council in March 2008 via a letter hand-delivered by a Sister Cities International delegation visiting the region. Bethlehem’s mayor, Dr. Victor Batarseh, replied affirmatively on his behalf and that of the Bethlehem City Council in a 2008 letter to then-Mayor Heather Fargo, which he reiterated in a 2009 letter to Mayor Kevin Johnson.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS THE SACRAMENTO TO BETHLEHEM SISTER CITY INITIATIVE DOING?</strong></p>
<p>The Sacramento to Bethlehem Sister City Initiative is demonstrating the feasibility of a formal Sister City bond between Sacramento and Bethlehem by accomplishing exchange projects and establishing relationships between Bethlehem and Sacramento residents and groups.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>In July, the group met with Mayor Johnson to deliver the letters from Mayor Batarseh, to acquaint him with their work and to enlist his support to formalize the relationship between the two cities. The group is conducting similar visits with city council members. A city council member has offered to sponsor the resolution to make Sacramento and Bethlehem Sister Cities and after the Sacramento City Council votes affirmatively, the two mayors will sign a Sister City agreement.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>DOES SACRAMENTO HAVE ANY SISTER CITIES? </strong></p>
<p>Sacramento has an almost fifty-year Sister City history. In 1961, it became Sister Cities with Pasay/Manila, Phillippines. And in 2006, it officially became Sister Cities with San Juan de Oriente, Nicaragua. And Sacramento presently has six other Sister Cities: Matsuyama, Japan (1988); Jinan, China (1984); Hamilton, New Zealand (1988); Liestal, Switzerland (1989); Chisnau, Moldova (1989); and Yongsan-gu, Korea (1997). Bethlehem would be Sacramento’s first Middle Eastern Sister City.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The city provides staff support and a meeting site to the Sister Cities Council of Sacramento, a group of citizen volunteers whose interest and energy keep Sacramento’s Sister City relationships active. Notes of the group’s bi-monthly meetings are made available to the mayor and the city council and annually the group provides a progress report to the City Council. Former-mayor Anne Rudin is the Honorary Chair. Members of the Sacramento to Bethlehem Sister City Initiative have been participating in Sister Cities Council of Sacramento meetings since October 2007.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Night at the Movies
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Sunday night was Unitarian night at the Tower Theater!  Six UUSS-connected folks were surprised to see one another there.  We made up one third of the 7:00 PM audience for “A Serious Man,” the new Coen Brothers film, set in a Minneapolis suburb in 1967.  It focuses on Jewish culture and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=321&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><strong>A Night at the Movies</strong></p>
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<p>Sunday night was Unitarian night at the Tower Theater!  Six UUSS-connected folks were surprised to see one another there.  We made up one third of the 7:00 PM audience for “<strong>A Serious Man</strong>,” the new Coen Brothers film, set in a Minneapolis suburb in 1967.  It focuses on Jewish culture and family life as well as religious questions and practices.  Themes include the randomness of life, the burdens of ordinary people, the struggle to do the right thing, and the complexities of human relationships.    It’s a modern, wacky take on the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Job">story of Job</a> in the Hebrew Scriptures.  The majority of us agreed with the <a href="http://movies.nytimes.com/2009/10/02/movies/02serious.html?em">New York Times</a> reviewer, who loved it, but a minority was in good company with the <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/cinema/2009/10/05/091005crci_cinema_denby">New Yorker</a> reviewer, who didn’t.  PS—it’s not a movie for kids.</p>
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		<title>The Lure of the Fuzzy: Stuffed-Animal Blessing Service</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Lure of the Fuzzy: 
Stuffed-Animal Blessing Service
UU Society of Sacramento
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Responsive Reading: gray hymnal #664, Give Us the Spirit of the Child, by Sara Moores Campbell
Hymns:  #203, All Creatures of the Earth and Sky; #21, For the Beauty of the Earth;
#201, Glory, Glory, Hallelujah. 
Piano/violin:  Linus and Lucy (Guaraldi).  Choir:  All God&#8217;s Crittters [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=318&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="text-align:left;"><strong>The Lure of the Fuzzy</strong><strong>: </strong><strong></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Stuffed-Animal Blessing Service</strong></p>
<p>UU Society of Sacramento</p>
<p>Sunday, October 18, 2009</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Responsive Reading</span>: gray hymnal #664, Give Us the Spirit of the Child, by Sara Moores Campbell</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Hymns</span>:  #203, All Creatures of the Earth and Sky; #21, For the Beauty of the Earth;</p>
<p>#201, Glory, Glory, Hallelujah. </p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Piano</span><span style="text-decoration:underline;">/violin</span>:  Linus and Lucy (Guaraldi).  <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Choir</span>:  All God&#8217;s Crittters Got a Place in the Choir.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Homily</span><br />
            Most children love stuffed-animal toys, made with plush or another soft cloth.  Lots of grown-up love them too, but sometimes we are shy to admit it.  Maybe we&#8217;re just shy  to admit that we might still have the feelings, motivations, and the very spirit of our childhood selves.  Your grown up ministers thought a service like this one could be a way to give permission to everyone to express appreciation for our stuffed, cloth-covered or fuzzy friends, and to consider what they have done for us. <br />
            The most famous manufacturer of plush animals began in Germany in 1880. Now the company is known as Steiff GMBH.   Its founder was Margarete Steiff.  Margarete had had polio as a baby and used a wheelchair all her life.  As a young adult she had a job as a seamstress and began making animals as a hobby.  First, it was elephants, then dogs, cats and pigs. With her brother&#8217;s help she started the company, making designs and prototypes herself.  She&#8217;s been dead a long time, but the company maintains her high standards for quality and safety for its products.  In 1902, her nephew Richard designed a stuffed bear.  Thanks to Theodore Rooselvelt, in five years they were selling nearly a million teddy bears every year, many of them exported to the United States.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the story.  In 1902, President Theodore Roosevelt was out on a bear hunt in Mississippi with several other important men, who also liked big-game hunting.  After a while most of the men had killed a bear but the President hadn&#8217;t.  Roosevelt&#8217;s assistants found a bear, sicced the dogs on it, beat it, and tied it to a tree so the President would have something to shoot and take home.  Roosevelt said:  <em>It&#8217;s not sportsmanlike to kill a helpless bear</em>.  He went home empty handed but ordered others to put the mistreated bear out of its misery.  Later a political cartoon in the <em>Washington Post</em> newspaper showed the President turning away from the animal.  It said:  “Drawing the line in Mississippi.”  The animal became known as Teddy’s bear.   More cartoons followed, showing the bears ever cuter and cuddlier.  American toymakers Rose and Morris Mitchom were the first to make and sell a toy bear in the President&#8217;s honor, but the Steiffs were right behind them.  A few years there were at least 20 teddy-bear companies. </p>
<p>        Lest you think me a promoter of consumerism for talking up store-bought bears, let us also praise the loveable sock monkey.  The sock monkey has been around since at least the 1930s.  While you can buy one in stores, typically these monkeys have been home-made out of work socks, especially socks with red heels, which become the monkey&#8217;s mouth. <br />
      I&#8217;m sorry to say that I was a greedy little consumerist kid.  I never settled for a sock monkey.  One Christmas season I instructed my parents <em>to instruct Santa Claus</em> that I wanted a lot of stuffed animals.  On Christmas morning, several of them appeared under the tree.  One was a plush pink pig with a wind-up key in its side, to make it play music. </p>
<p><em>I’ve been wondering</em>:  What is it that makes our comfort objects, like dolls and soft animals, such good companions?   What do these animals excel at?  For one thing, as versatile playmates, these toys encourage our creative imagination.  They are able and willing to play any role we give them in whatever skit or scheme we come up with.   With a fuzzy friend and an open imagination, you don&#8217;t really need anything fancy or expensive to have a good time. </p>
<p>Sometimes as a boy I lined up my animals along the wall of our walk in closet.  They were behind the hanging clothes, so it seemed that each one had its own house.  I&#8217;d walk them over to one another&#8217;s homes for a visit, and deliver mail among them.  I practiced medicine on them, as well as cosmetology.  Once I cut out spots of their fur with scissors; kids, don’t try this!  The fur won’t grow back.  My father was a physician, and I filled some syringes with water and gave them injections, with real needles.  I don&#8217;t know if I was acting like Doctor Doolittle or more like Dr. Joseph Mengele.  But I do know that sometimes I took out my frustrations on my toy pets.  My real pets were no doubt relieved.</p>
<p>            Where else could a wolf and lamb lie down together, or a lion sit with a calf, than amidst  the fuzzy menagerie of a toddler who can bring them together by the spirit of imagination?  In the Bible, the Hebrew Prophet Isaiah imagines a new world, a world in a state of divine peace:  &#8220;The wolf shall dwell with the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the young goat, and the calf and the lion and the fattened calf together.”  And, the Prophet Isaiah concludes, “a little child shall lead them.&#8221; </p>
<p>        Soft animal toys or dolls teach empathy.  They listen softly, so to speak.  They are always ready to hear our joys and sorrows, our hopes and hurts.  As  patient companions, they welcome our ideas, opinions, grand schemes, and stories.  Soft listeners never say, &#8220;That&#8217;s stupid.&#8221;</p>
<p>They are role models of gentleness and reminders of the goodness of just being present with one another.   They don&#8217;t have to have the answer for our questions or try to solve our problems, they just need to be there.  No matter what your age, sometimes it&#8217;s nice to have the soft attention of a good listener.  Maybe  as adults we can remember how important it is to be gentle and patient with one another, and with ourselves. </p>
<p>            For some of us, a soft animal has been a source of tender companionship when our family situation didn’t feel so tender, gentle or kind.  A Unitarian Universalist friend of mine grew up in the 1950s and 60s in an anti-religious family, and secretly prayed every night after going to bed.  When the lights were out she would pull all her animals under the covers with her and pray with them.  She&#8217;d pray to God for peace and harmony among members of her family.  She&#8217;d pray for peace and safety in her own life, and she&#8217;d pray for other children, including the kids living in the Soviet Union during those early years of the arms race.  She&#8217;d finish her prayers by praying for all the animals in the bed with her.  Of course, this little girl grew up to be a minister.    </p>
<p>Our stuffed animals can gain meaning for us over time&#8211;it&#8217;s not how many we have or how new they are that really matters&#8211; it&#8217;s their familiarity.  It&#8217;s like a meal we know as &#8220;comfort food.&#8221;  Comfort foods evoke a variety of memories, longings and cravings.  The meaning of things to us depends on our own life story, not on how elaborate or expensive things are.  I have a friend in her 60s who still still has the animal given to her by her father when she had her tonsils removed at age five.  This friend&#8217;s young-adult daughter also has kept a homemade stuffed animal from her childhood.  Once as a little girl, her daughter had a birthday party and invited all her guests to bring teddy bears, and they decorated tee-shirts for the bears.   This was the first party she didn&#8217;t want her younger brother to attend.  He had a stuffed penguin.  He drew a card for his sister, with a teddy bear on it, and wrote &#8220;I can&#8217;t bear to miss your party.&#8221;  [pause for sighing]  She let him come after all, and welcomed the penguin as well.<br />
            Playing with dolls or toy animals is a way to practice love, kindness, and affection. Of course, the animals are not real, but the spirit of companionship <em>is </em>real.  The love that we show is real.   In the children&#8217;s book <em>The Velveteen Rabbit</em>, by Margery Williams, the soft toy Rabbit asks:</p>
<p>    “What is REAL?  Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?’</p>
<p>    “Real isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse.  “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become REAL.”</p>
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<p>Let us affirm the gift of imagination and the practice of love.  Let us learn to trust one another to show our softness and our spirits.  Let us give thanks for the real gifts of care that we can give and receive, all through our lives.  So may it be.  Amen. </p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Introductions of our Fuzzy Friends</strong></p>
<p>            If you have brought a toy or animal to church with you, we invite you to line up at the microphone and introdue it.  Tell us its name, and tell us what it is, if that’s not obvious.</p>
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<p><strong>Blessing Ritual</strong><strong></strong></p>
<p>Now for the ritual of blessing.  We will have a laying-on of hands.  Place your hand over your fuzzy friend or another toy you&#8217;ve brought.  If you don&#8217;t have one, feel free to call to mind one that you do have, one that you used to have, one that you&#8217;d like to have, or one you would like to give to someone else.  Now let us call to mind the faces of those children who live in places or conditions where gentleness is is in short supply, and the need for peace and playfulness is great.   </p>
<p>            Spirit of Love and Creativity, we give thanks for all sources of care, comfort and companionship, including these present with us today.  Bless them and us, and bless the goodness that arises within us and among us.  We are thankful for the wonders of imagination and play, and the gifts of attention, patience and presence.  May the healing powers of joy, love and hope touch everyone, of every age, here and all over the world. </p>
<p>So may it be.  Blessed be and amen.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Closing Words and Benediction</strong></p>
<p>Our closing words come from one of the  Winnie-the-Pooh books, by A.A. Milne:</p>
<p>&#8220;Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind.<br />
&#8216;Pooh?&#8217; he whispered.<br />
&#8216;Yes, Piglet?&#8217;<br />
&#8216;Nothing&#8217; said Piglet, taking Pooh&#8217;s hand.<br />
&#8216;I just wanted to be sure of you.&#8217;</p>
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<p>May you depart in joy and return in peace.  Amen.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Introducing Big, Bold Opportunities 
for Building Life-Long Unitarian Universalists 
By the  Family Minister 
The Board of Trustees has appointed a task force to review and advance our long-range goal of promoting inter-generational community and ministering to families with children.
As the Task Force begins its work, I want to tell you what&#8217;s already going on, and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=316&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><strong>Introducing Big, Bold Opportunities </strong></p>
<p><strong>for Building Life-Long Unitarian Universalists </strong></p>
<p><em>By the  Family Minister </em></p>
<p>The Board of Trustees has appointed a task force to review and advance our long-range goal of promoting inter-generational community and ministering to families with children.</p>
<p>As the Task Force begins its work, I want to tell you what&#8217;s already going on, and worth celebrating.     Unlike some congregations, UUSS is blessed that adult leaders in Child/Youth Religious Education bring experience as involved lifelong Unitarian Universalists.  They span a range of ages from 18 to 80+ years.  I am not exaggerating!</p>
<p>This commitment is key to congregational vitality, and the secret to the formation of life-long, life-loving UUs.      Take a look at what you make possible here:</p>
<p>There is professional child care for those up to age 5 during both services in Room #11.  In the adjoining room, during the 9:30 service, is<strong> Story Time</strong> for toddlers and kindergarteners.  They enter by negotiating the stones across an imaginary river and crawling through a tunnel in the earth.  The reader&#8217;s rocking chair is under a rainbow canopy, and we have classic and new story books.  We ask each volunteer to plan to read a few Sundays in a row, but for just one stretch per year. Last week&#8217;s story was<em> Frederick</em> (you know, the mouse with the big imagination).</p>
<p>For grades 1-5 we offer <strong><a href="http://www.spiritplay.net">Spirit Play</a></strong>.  It promotes learning through stories, spiritual reflection and community building.  Our trained adult leaders are Story Tellers.  You can help out this thriving new UU program by offering to bring and set up a Feast (snack), learn to be an occasional Door Keeper, or come early a few times to help set up art supplies or to reshelve afterwards.  A Parent Orientation for those yet to find UUSS (and other interested adults) will take place in January.</p>
<p>The <strong>junior high group</strong> enjoys conversations related to UU identity and values, explores various spiritual practices from world religions, and may consider field trips or overnight retreats.  Last time I poked my head in Room 6 on a Sunday, I saw a good crowd of engaged youth and adult leaders.</p>
<p>The <strong>senior high youth group </strong>is booming too.  On my first visit, adults and youth were getting to know one another and considering activities for the year.  The next time I looked in I didn&#8217;t even see an open chair or even a space where I could have put one.  What&#8217;s new for SHYG this fall is that our teens now join with all other ages for the first part of worship, including the Hand of Fellowship, Chalice Lighing, and reciting of our Mission, Values &amp; Covenant.</p>
<p>Of course, every year we offer an <strong><a href="http://www.uua.org/religiouseducation/curricula/ourwhole/">Our Whole Lives</a></strong> program for one or more age groups. OWL is a values-based comprehensive sexuality education program, and all adult leaders have been trained to lead it.  It takes place on afternoons or evenings over several weeks. Unfortunately for our dedicated volunteers, we did not get enough sign-ups to begin this fall&#8217;s junior high OWL program as soon as planned.  So, spread the word!  High school OWL classes will begin soon, too.</p>
<p>Our <strong>UURTH SONG Community Garden </strong>leadership team has invited youth and children to enjoy the wonders of our summer garden and help to plant the winter crops.  It is a ready-made curriculum:  all you have to do is enter it and you have all the materials you need for wondering, learning, sharing, contributing, and cheering!</p>
<p>In recent weeks and months church members have offered their professional talents in the <em>visual and musical arts </em>to engage our children and youth in creative and expressive activities.  Last summer&#8217;s <strong>ArtWork Sunday</strong> programs were amazing, and I look forward to the bonding that comes from making music together.</p>
<p>Thank you for the many ways you support our shared ministry to children, youth, their families, and the whole congregation.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to the future!</p>
<p>Faithfully,</p>
<p><em>Roger</em></p>
<p><strong>PS: </strong>I welcome your help in organizing additional activities and special events for  all ages, starting with kids&#8217; activities for the November 7&#8217;s Harvest Fest Dinner and Auction  and then the all-ages Holiday Crafts Party, Tree Trimming and Potluck Dinner in December.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sunday afternoon, September 13, 2009
My Remarks and Prayer of Benediction at the Decennial Celebration 
Honoring the Ministry of The Reverend Katie Kandarian-Morris 
Starr King UU Church, Hayward, California 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><em>Sunday afternoon, September 13, 2009</em></p>
<p><em>My Remarks and Prayer of Benediction at the Decennial Celebration </em></p>
<p><em>Honoring the Ministry of The Reverend Katie Kandarian-Morris </em></p>
<p><em>Starr King UU Church, Hayward, California </em></p>
<p>Good afternoon!  It’s a joy to be with you all for this occasion.  And what a grand name for it:  the Reverend Kathryn Kandarian’s Decennial Celebration.  I’ve never heard the word “decennial” before, but it kind of makes her sound old, doesn’t it?  But I am here to say:  “Katie, you haven’t changed a bit!”</p>
<p>But of course, Katie has changed, in many ways.  So have I, and so have you and all the members of this congregation.  I know that serving with you in the shared ministry of this congregation has been a major part of Katie’s formation, growth, and spiritual deepening.  It reminds me of the words of philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche:  “What does not destroy me makes me stronger.”</p>
<p>Ten years is indeed a good long time for a parish minister and congregation to be in relationship.  UU congregations in the Pacific Central District have had an increasing rate of ministerial turnover, and right now we don’t have that many churches and ministers who have stayed together this long.  This kind of stability is important if we are to make lasting changes in our congregations, our local communities and our religious movement.</p>
<p>I would like to express gratitude to this congregation for calling Katie to this church and this district, and for keeping her with us.  By doing so, you have enriched our district and the local chapter of our ministers’ professional association.  Bringing strong experience as a church president in the Denver area (among many other lay leadership roles), and a life long identity as a Unitarian Universalist, Katie has given leadership to several district committees, working groups and special events.   To her current role as the president of the UU Ministers’ Association in this district, Katie brings good sense, commitment and courage.  She knows how to lead us through challenging deliberations and how to lighten the spirit of a meeting with just the right inflection in her voice and keen coming timing.  She makes meetings fun.</p>
<p>For the past several years Katie, Michelle Favreault and I have been part of a yearly collegial study group of 12 UU ministers from around the state and across the continent.  Once a year we meet at a Catholic retreat center to engage in conversation about weighty topics of theology, liberal religious identity, and social justice.  We read aloud to one another in-depth essays and reflection papers we have prepared just for the retreat.   To these scholarly meetings Katie brings her insightful and questioning mind, and relevant examples from real life and her life in ministry with you.  She brings her genuine personality, concern for other people, and especially her sense of humor and playfulness.  We appreciate Katie because she is both wise and wacky.</p>
<p>I personally would like to thank this congregation for calling Katie to this District, for by doing so you have introduced me to someone who has become a loving and true friend.  Katie and I have grown and observed each other’s growth, and encouraged one another.  We have strived to uphold our UU ministerial convenant as we have over come misunderstandings.  We have struggled to be direct and honest with one another and show forgiveness to one another.</p>
<p>She has shown empathy to me for the disappointments and doubts that are part of the hard work of ministry. She has invited me out to play after a hard stretch of work. Katie has given me fashion advice, but in a supportive way, even when she knew what I really needed was a total makeover.</p>
<p>There’s an old joke or story about a child in a church who said that parish ministers had a very easy job.   After all, they work only on Sunday and they just come in, stand up and talk.  And then they take a collection. Well, this may be true, but this is only the tip of the iceberg of parish ministry.   Over my years in ministry, I’ve learned that much of the hardest work that parish ministers do is not public.  Moreover, much of the behind-the-scenes work we do can be tedious, even though it’s important. Most of the work is not visible to most other people most of the time.</p>
<p>For those who do it well, what makes ministry tough is that we carry the lives of parishioners in our hearts as we go about our daily lives. We bring into our minds and into our prayers your hopes and fears, joys and sorrows, your voices and faces.   I know that Katie does this hard and heartfelt work for you and with you, and the privilege doing so with you is what makes it holy work for her. This is why I am proud to be Katie’s close colleague.  God  bless you all.  Amen.</p>
<p><em>Benediction</em></p>
<p>Please join me in the spirit of prayer and intention as I offer these words of benediction.   Eternal spirit of love and grace, Holy One, we give thanks for this time together.</p>
<p>We celebrate the precious relationship of minister and congregation, and we give thanks for the care, comfort, and companionship that ministers and members bring forth from one another.  Bless this congregation, this minister and her family.</p>
<p>We celebrate the variety of people and the multiple generations now present in this congregation, and we give thanks for the many friendships fostered and sustained by this church over the years.  Bless them all with greater joy, faith, love and hope in the days and years to come.</p>
<p>We celebrate this church’s connections to the Unitarian Universalist Association and its 1,000 member congregations.   We give thanks for our liberal religious heritage and its values of freedom, reason, compassion and understanding.  Bless all our congregations and bless those who serve in ministry and professional and volunteer leadership.</p>
<p>We celebrate this church’s commitment to inclusion, fairness and justice.  We give thanks for its ministry beyond these walls out into the city of Hayward and nearby communities.  We give thanks for Katie’s leadership in the larger community. Bless all the religious leaders gathered here today, and bless all those who serve nearby communities in ministries of love and justice.  Bless all our cities and our neighborhoods with peace and hope.</p>
<p>We celebrate this congregation’s power to change lives.  We give thanks for its celebration of life, faith in human possibility, service to others, and its optimism in the face of challenge.  We give thanks for its deep heart. Bless its minister and staff, its members and friends, its children, youth, adults and elders, today and in all the days to come.</p>
<p>May we be grateful for the blessings of this day and for all the gifts of life.   Spirit of Life, bless our lives, our communities, and our world. So may it be.   Amen.</p>
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		<title>Vocational Issues:  TSA Workers and the Big Picture of Bureaucratic Jobs</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 17:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In workshops,  guided meditations or team-building sessions at various large organizations, it is possible to guide each worker, at whatever level or type of job, to consider how his or her work fits into the larger picture, how it supports a larger mission, how it matters.
I thought of this in the security line at the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=308&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>In workshops,  guided meditations or team-building sessions at various large organizations, it is possible to guide each worker, at whatever level or type of job, to consider how his or her work fits into the larger picture, how it supports a larger mission, how it matters.</p>
<p>I thought of this in the security line at the airport last week:  how mind-numbing, boring and frustrating it would be for me to be part of the TSA bureaucracy.  The most interesting part of the job would be foiling an evil plot, or at least finding something dangerous in someone&#8217;s bags or pockets.  But the system exists to dissuade people from even trying that; it is set up to be mundane.</p>
<p>As I waited in the TSA line I saw a sign proclaiming:  &#8220;TSA workers have rights too!&#8221;  It urged people to be respectful of the security agents and asserted that verbal abuse and physical assaults against them would not be tolerated.  So, to add insult to tedium, they have to deal with ungracious and ungrateful travelers.</p>
<p>But perhaps the TSA workers can see their routine jobs as protecting the safety of thousands of travelers and airline employees every day and thereby reassuring travelers of the safety of air travel.<br />
Of course, a problem in any bureaucracy is when rigidly following the rules or SOP and ignoring exceptional or new information.  Also, systematic oppression or biased treatment can find cover in the required routines of any bureaucracy, in particular publi-safety bureaucracies.</p>
<p>Recall that it took two hours of questioning of a Muslim Indian Bollywood star in an American airport before he was released.</p>
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		<title>The Vocation of Denying Insurance Claims</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 17:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Monday on KQED-FM&#8217;s &#8220;Forum&#8221; the Washington Post journalist T.R. Reid spoke about his new book based on his exploration of different health care systems in the world.   I believe he said that $50 million a year on employees whose only job is to process, and largely deny, reimbursement claims.  Denial of claims is a key [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=ironicschmoozer.wordpress.com&blog=3355898&post=310&subd=ironicschmoozer&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Monday on KQED-FM&#8217;s &#8220;Forum&#8221; the Washington Post journalist T.R. Reid spoke about his new book based on his exploration of different health care systems in the world.   I believe he said that $50 million a year on employees whose only job is to process, and largely deny, reimbursement claims.  Denial of claims is a key to cost-cutting and profit-making for private insurers.</p>
<p>A question arose about the loss of all those claim-processing jobs.  Reid paraphrased an economist who said the nation would be better off paying half those people to dig ditches and the other half to fill them up.</p>
<p>If we change our health care system to eliminate the claim-denying bureaucracy, Reid said, a better plan would be to train those folks to be nurses&#8217; or physicians&#8217; assistants, to work in health-promotion and disease prevention activities, or any manner of productive work related to health care.</p>
<p>In a recent post I wrote about the benefit of seeing our work, no matter how mundane, low-paid, or routine, as part of a bigger picture, perhaps even an expression of purpose or calling.   Given the millions of people whose job it is to deny claims, I&#8217;m wondering how they could look at their work from this angle.  Is it possible?</p>
<p>When we have to deal with a claim-denying bureaucrat on the phone it can be quite frustrating; surely they are in a difficult position if they have any empathy at all.   Is this kind of work &#8220;just a job&#8221; or is it a &#8220;soul-killing job, but at least it&#8217;s a job&#8221; or is it a worthwhile job because it benefits the company shareholders?  Perhaps many of them see their calling as doing what it takes to earn enough money to keep their children fed and housed or to save for a child&#8217;s future college expenses.</p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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